The skincare regimen I use for PCOS

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Acne is something I have struggled since I hit puberty. I was always told it was something that would go away with adulthood, but thanks to a PCOS diagnosis, the acne seems to be here to stay.

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) is a common women’s hormonal disorder characterized by the Mayo Clinic as “infrequent or prolonged menstrual periods or excess male (androgen) levels.” According to Healthline, common symptoms of PCOS include irregular periods, heavy bleeding, hair growth, acne, weight gain, male-pattern baldness, darkening of the skin, and headaches

One of the most visible symptoms of PCOS is acne. Because of the excess androgen levels, women with PCOS tend to have more trouble with skin health. Personally, I have tried multiple over-the-counter and prescription acne treatments, and none of them ever worked for me. The reason for this is because the only way to really solve the acne problem is to correct the hormone levels, which is easier said than done. After trying numerous birth control medications, I decided to do a little research to find a skincare regimen that would help me to at least manage my acne so breakouts became less severe. 

As stated above, the skincare regimen below has not solved the problem, but when I follow it, breakouts occur less frequently. My skin looks the most beautiful it has in years. The best part about this regimen is it has erased many of the scars I had on my face from years of struggling with acne. For the first time in nearly a decade, I feel comfortable walking into public without having makeup on my face. I cannot even express how freeing that is.

If you struggle with PCOS, or if you are just looking for a more natural acne treatment regimen, I hope you find these products helpful. Please feel free to comment below if you have any questions regarding the products I have suggested, or if you have found a regimen that works for you! The more we share about PCOS and how we have found ways to cope with the symptoms, the more we empower the women around us to take charge of their health and to feel beautiful.

1. Boscia Detoxifying Black Cleanser

This charcoal cleanser is the first step in my face cleansing regimen. It detoxifies my skin and gets rid of all the dirt in my pores. In addition to my nightly routine, I often use this cleanser after my morning workout because my face instantly brightens after using it. I also love how the cleanser heats up as I use it – every time I wash my face with this product, it feels like an expensive spa treatment. 

2. HydroPeptide Purifying Cleanser

After detoxifying my face, I use the HydroPeptide Purifying Anti-Wrinkle and Clarifying Cleanser to achieve a deep clean. This cleanser also helps get rid of those pesky acne scars. 

3. Thayers Facial Toner

For a toner, I use Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel and Aloe Vera Formula Toner. It’s an alcohol-free, gentle toner made with natural ingredients. While I am cleaning my face, I like to know that I am not putting a lot of chemicals into my pores. This product also helps bring a little more moisture into my skin.

4. Tree of Life Retinol Serum

To really work at those scars and to heal my damaged skin, I use this retinol serum. It is made with natural ingredients and has been designed to be used by all skin types. I can honestly say this product has been a life-changer for me – it is the reason I finally feel confident in my skin.

5. Differin Gel

This is one of those over-the-counter acne treatments that is made to get the job done. Differin Gel is a little harsh, so I don’t recommend putting it everywhere on your face; instead, rub a small amount into your skin solely where you are currently having a breakout. This gel often makes my breakouts disappear by the following morning. 

6. Neutrogena Oil-Free Moisturizer for Sensitive Skin

A lot of these products, including the charcoal cleanser, retinol serum, and Differin gel, can cause dry skin. As someone who already struggles with skin dryness, I knew lotion had to be a part of my regimen. I use Neutrogena’s oil-free moisturizer because it doesn’t clog my pores and it’s fragrance free. I strongly recommend finishing this facial regimen with lotion even if you aren’t prone to dry skin – even going a day or two without this step can cause my entire face to become red and irritated. But when I do use the lotion, my skin has never looked healthier. 

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3 simple ways to love yourself better every day

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I know self-care is one of the most important things I can do to make sure I am functioning at my best, but somehow, I just never seem to have time to fit it in.

Every day, my schedule fills up with work, errands, and other chores. By the time I get home, I am ready to just crawl into bed. And some days, I don’t even give myself the luxury of a good night’s rest – often, I am up late, working on a blog post, finishing an assignment for work, or taking a look at my weekly budget.

As important as self-care is, it always seems to be something I struggle with. The idea of taking a relaxing bubble bath or just sitting for an hour to read a book seems to be too difficult to fit into my day. 

I know I am not alone in this. So many of us are rushing from one task to the next – it’s hard to take a step back and notice how we feel. It’s even harder to actually listen to and give our bodies what they need in that moment.

So, to give us all some much-needed help, I have listed below three simple things you can do every day to love yourself better. It takes some practice, but incorporating these three actions into your day every day can help you to be better in tune with what your body needs, and to actually meet those needs during your day. They aren’t time-consuming tasks, but they make a big difference in your quality of life. And when you are feeling good, you are better able to help the other people in your life feel good, too.

1. Do a mental check-in when you wake up

Resist checking your phone first thing in the morning and take the first 30 seconds of your day to do a check-in with your body. How are you feeling, physically, mentally and spiritually? 

Ask yourself: How does your body feel? Are you well rested? What emotions are you feeling? Do you feel grounded, or do you feel disconnected from the world around you? 

Based on these and other questions you may ask yourself, take note of how you are feeling, and then move on to the next task.

2. Schedule in 30 minutes to take care of yourself, mentally, physically or spiritually

Based on the results of your mental check-in, schedule in some time to take care of any needs you may have. If you are feeling tired, consider scheduling in a 30-minute nap. If your body feels stiff, maybe schedule in a 30-minute yoga session. If you are feeling sad, take some time to do something you enjoy, such as reading, dancing, or singing at the top of your lungs. If you feel like you need to ground yourself, spend some time reading scripture or repeating self-affirmations to yourself. Do whatever works for you. 

Thirty minutes is not a lot of time, but it really makes a difference. Taking just this small amount of time for yourself makes sure that your most present need for the day is met. 

Schedule in this time on your calendar. If it helps, make it the same time block every day, but change the activity daily based on what you need. You can do your self-care activity first thing in the morning, during your lunch hour at work, or right before you go to sleep at night. Once the task is on your to-do list, it is more likely to get done.

3. Write down 3 things you are grateful for before you go to sleep

End your day with a moment of gratitude. Write down three things you are grateful for that happened that day. This is a great practice to help you remember all of the blessings in your life, rather than focusing on the negatives. Writing down what you are grateful for will not only help you to have a more positive mindset (and positive energy helps attract a more positive life). It also helps to make sure you go to bed thinking about positive things instead of letting your mind wander to everything that is currently stressful in your life. A good night’s rest is a key part of self-care, and it’s easier to achieve that if your head is thinking happy thoughts when it hits the pillow.

Self-care is a very personal journey, and it looks different for everyone. The three practices listed above are simply meant to guide you in your own journey. Always remember to be gentle with yourself – if there are days these tasks don’t happen, simply cross them off your to-do list and promise to take better care of yourself tomorrow. Always give yourself the same love and grace you would extend to others.

What are your favorite ways to show yourself love? Leave a comment below to help spread the inspiration and positivity. 

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10 activities I am looking forward to this fall

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Fall is finally here!

The long, summer days are slowly waning, and the cool, crisp, autumn mornings are on their way. 

Fall is the season for cozy sweaters, warm drinks, and lots and lots of pumpkin. Things may be very different this year because of the novel coronavirus, but there are still plenty of activities I am looking forward to doing. 

Check out my fall bucket list to learn more about the activities I am most excited about this year. If you feel inspired, try out a few and leave me a comment below about your experience – I would love to hear how you are making the most of the fall season. 

1. Apple picking

I have only been apple picking once in my life, but it is an experience I want to repeat. Nothing quite compares to the taste of a freshly picked, sweet, juicy apple. After collecting your bushel, try your hand at a classic apple recipe, such as apple pie or cider.

2. Drink a pumpkin spice latte

Starbucks has already released its pumpkin spice latte, and it’s just as delicious as ever. The bitterness of the espresso is balanced beautifully by the perfectly steamed milk and sweet, fall spices. It’s the perfect drink to sip on a chilly day. 

3. Explore a corn maze

A corn maze is the perfect place to reminisce about the fall seasons from our childhoods. It’s one of the few places where I still feel just as small as I did when I was a kid. Spider Hall Farm is one of my favorite corn mazes to get lost in every year. The farm also has a terrific Mom and Pop’s-style store, a hayride, and a pumpkin patch, so it caters to all of your fall activity needs.

4. Hike in the Fall Foliage

I love it when the leaves change colors. As the weather gets colder, the bursts of yellow, orange and red from the treetops still fill my soul with warmth. Hiking is one of the best ways to take in the trees’ beauty, but if hiking isn’t for you, a drive down a scenic back road would also be a breathtakingly beautiful experience. 

5. Pumpkin picking

It wouldn’t be fall without some pumpkin picking. If you want some extra spookiness and autumn vibes, try picking out your pumpkin at dusk. Once you have found the biggest one, take it home to carve or paint. And don’t forget to roast your seeds for a delicious snack!

6. Watch a Football Game

Sports look a little different this year, but I am excited to have a lazy Sunday afternoon with my family, cheering on our team and eating snacks. There is something about rooting on a team together, or booing each other’s rival players, that brings people together. 

7. Dress Up for Halloween

Halloween 2019 – Joseph and I dressed up as Clark Kent and Lois Lane

I don’t care how old I get – dressing up on Halloween will always be something I want to be a part of. Every year, I am allowed one evening to be creative and pretend to be anything I want to be, and that’s something I am always going to take advantage of. Trick-or-treating is optional, but always encouraged (if it is approved by the governor, of course – otherwise, I will just eat my candy alone at home). 

8. Watch “The Nightmare Before Christmas”

You may find this one strange, but this is my favorite Halloween tradition. Every year, I sit down with my sweet treat (and, as I have gotten older, my spiked drink of choice) to watch The Nightmare Before Christmas. As far as I am concerned, the holidays start as soon as the clock strikes midnight (which, incidentally, is also the moment that I play the song, “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas,” much to the annoyance of anyone else in the house). Halloween is the nightmare that occurs right before the Christmas season, therefore I believe it is the perfect day to watch this movie. 

9. Spend a Day Reading

I can’t think of a better way to use my time on a chilly, autumn day than to curl up with a hot mug of tea (find my favorite mug here), a fuzzy blanket, and a good book (here is one of my favorite classics). It’s one of my favorite ways to indulge in self-care, especially when it’s too cold to go outside. 

10. Spend Time with Family

Thanksgiving 2018 with my family

Thanksgiving marks the end of the fall season, and it’s one of my absolute favorite times of the year. Spending time with family always reminds me of how grateful I am for the people in my life and the love we have for one another. I can’t think of a better way to say farewell to fall and greet the holiday season than to be surrounded by loved ones, remembering just how blessed I am in this beautiful life. 

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It’s time to start talking about PCOS (and women’s health in general)

All women are familiar with the uncomfortable symptoms of menstruation – cramps, headaches, bloating, and an increased need to cry and eat chocolate are among those that are most popular. 

But some women experience another list of symptoms that are a little more irregular, such as prolonged weight gain, dark hair growth, irregular bleeding and ovulation, and severe acne. While all periods are uncomfortable, these are symptoms of another medical condition, known as polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). 

PCOS has recently been making headlines more frequently. Just last month, congresswoman Abby Finkenauer secured extra funding to increase research for endometriosis, another women’s health condition associated with menstruation and reproduction. Now, a number of women’s health problems, including PCOS, are being highlighted with the hope that funding for more research and treatment will be gained.

My Story

It is not a coincidence that the recent headline-making PCOS has had caught my eye. For me, this is not a random string of letters. I was diagnosed with PCOS at age 13, when the ideas of fertility and making consciously healthy diet choices were far from my mind. All I knew at the time was that my periods were excruciatingly heavy and painful, often leaving me curled up in a ball on the couch. My acne was worse than most of the girls in school, despite the fact that I had tried just about every skincare program on the market. And I had dark, thick hair growing on my body where other girls had blonde, fair fuzz. 

My doctors did not explain much to me when they handed over a birth control pill. All I knew wast that it helped me feel better. However, the acne and dark hair persisted, and as my teenage years went on, research helped me discover beauty regimens that made me feel more confident in my own skin.

It wasn’t until I was in college that I finally was able to have a full conversation with my doctor about what PCOS meant. After years of thinking of the condition as mostly a complication to my physical appearance, I was devastated by the news that I would one day perhaps struggle to get pregnant. At that point, my periods had been nonexistent for over a year because I had been neglecting to take my medication, and the doctor’s main concern was the risk that put me at for developing endometrial cancer. I was put back on the pill, and I returned to normal life, told to come back if my symptoms worsened or when I was married to talk about having children. Any questions I have had since then about fertility have always been brushed aside; the doctor told me I obviously was not fertile now, so we would wait to talk about treatment options until I was actually interested in having children.

This uncertainty and possible infertility has hung like a weight over my head since that appointment. I am in my early 20s, but already friends have begun having children, and I can’t help but feel an ache when I think about the possibility that I may never be able to do the same. Every conversation I have with my fiancé about our future children and child-rearing is always encased by the possibility that all the topics we are discussing may never come to fruition. I have read from multiple sources that the feeling of shame that comes with PCOS is not uncommon. While we have come a long way in society from thinking of women primarily as child-rearers, I still always had the expectation of myself that I would be able to do the natural process that women have been doing since the dawn of time. 

What is PCOS?

According to the Mayo Clinic, PCOS is a hormonal disorder characterized by “infrequent or prolonged menstrual periods or excess male hormone (androgen) levels.” The cause of PCOS is unknown, which makes treatment more complicated and is why women and doctors are now fighting for more funding for research. According to the Mayo Clinic, if PCOS is caught and treated early, it can help “reduce the risk of long-term complications such as type 2 diabetes and heart disease.”

However, the Mayo Clinic does mention a few possibilities being explored for the cause of PCOS. Excess insulin in the body can increase androgen production, which can complicate normal ovulation. Another thought is that inflammation in the body may stimulate the ovaries to produce more androgens. Other causes often cited are an excess of androgen in the body for unknown reasons or heredity. 

According to Self Magazine, there are three diagnostic symptoms. The first is irregular periods, characterized by infrequent periods and/or having irregularly heavy bleeding during periods. The second is excess androgen in the body, which can cause dark facial and body hair growth (known as hirsutism), acne, and sometimes male-pattern baldness. The third common symptom that characterizes PCOS is not visible to the eye – it can only be found with an ultrasound. Polycystic ovaries are ovaries that contain follicles that surround the eggs. This can cause the ovaries to function irregularly, such as failing to release eggs in a normal pattern. 

Other common symptoms of PCOS, according to WebMD, include skin darkening, trouble sleeping, headaches, infertility, and weight gain. 

Diagnosis and Treatment

According to Self Magazine, there are multiple ways doctors diagnose PCOS because there is different diagnostic criteria. The latest criteria, published in 2009 by the Androgen Excess and PCOS society, said “someone would need to exhibit hyperandrogensim plus either of the other possible signs to be diagnosed with PCOS.”

There is no current cure for PCOS, so the focus is normally on treatment. According to the U.S. Department of Health, a patient’s treatment plan varies based on her personal symptoms, whether she is currently trying to get pregnant, and whether she is at risk for any long-term health complications. The most common first treatments for PCOS include lifestyle changes to achieve a healthy weight and taking a birth control medication.

Why isn’t there more research?

Self Magazine recently released an article posing one simple question: “Why is PCOS still so hard for doctors to understand?” Quite simply, there has not been enough research to give doctors the answers they need. There are two reasons for this.

First, according to Leanne Redman, Ph.D., director of Reproductive Endocrinology and Women’s Health Research Program at Pennington Biomedical Research Center, there aren’t enough willing participants in studies. In order to participate in a study, Redman said patients have to stop taking their medications. And according to Dr. Andrea Dunaif, M.D., chair of endocrinology at Mount Sinai School of Medicine, the dropout rates for prolonged studies are high. 

Secondly, there is not enough funding. According to a study published in The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism, “PCOS research may be underfunded considering its prevalence, economic burden, metabolic morbidity, and negative impact on quality life.” Funding for PCOS is limited because it has been characterized by the National Institutes of Health (NIH) as a reproductive disorder, which means it receives most of its funding from organizations that research reproductive health issues. However, PCOS is also a metabolic disorder, meaning it has greater impact on other areas of life than it is recognized for, and, therefore, it has the potential for more medical funding.

Takeaway

There is one major takeaway I would like to have from my story, and that is there needs to be more transparency and conversation associated with women’s health issues. Even while writing this, it crossed my mind that some people would balk about seeing something written bluntly about menstrual bleeding and cramping. Although, this seems odd to me because, according to DAME, a company that makes products for menstruation, women spend an equivalent of 10 years of their lives on their period. But, in my experience, the lack of open conversation about menstruation, even among women, leads to a lot of unknowns surrounding women’s health. For instance, it wasn’t until I started working in holistic health that I learned about foods I could eat to ease my symptoms. Many women I know are unaware of the amount of chemicals in tampons and pads, which most of us, including myself, continue to use because they are cheaper and more readily available than safer alternatives. And in my particular case, I have not even had the option to have a transparent conversation with my gynecologist about treatment options. 

Transparency and openness in women’s health can make sure that women live healthier lives. For me personally, transparency about my own experience helped me to learn about more treatment options, and it helped me to realize that I am not alone. As soon as I started talking about PCOS, I realized how prevalent it is. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), six to 12 percent of women in the United States who are of reproductive age have PCOS, making it one of the most common causes of female infertility. 

But more importantly than that, 100 percent of women experience menstruation and the struggles that come with it, which means this a conversation we need to be having. 

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15 songs I listened to on repeat this summer

The summer is almost over, which means it’s nearly time for cozy sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes. It also means that the music scene is about to change from carefree beats to more sentimental tunes.

However, there are a few more warm days left. So, until the leaves start to change, I am going to keep listening to my summer vibe playlist, and I thought I would share it with you to enjoy, too. I have to warn you now: not all the songs are upbeat, but they make up the soundtrack of my summer of 2020.

I hope you enjoy it! Please feel free to share your favorite summer vibe songs in the comment below – I would love to add them to my listening queue.

Summer Vibes Playlist

1. Here Comes the Sun by The Beatles

I can’t go more than a few days of summer without listening to this classic goodie. Yes, finally, the summer is here, and the sun is out. It’s time to slow down and just enjoy life a little more. 

2. The 1 by Taylor Swift (E)

Aptly named as the first song in her surprise new album, The 1 by Taylor Swift is the perfect introduction to an album with a completely different vibe than the artist’s previous works. It’s a bittersweet, regretful, lost love song that I can’t stop listening to.

3. Sleep on the Floor by The Lumineers

Me and my team at the Fred and Pamela Buffet Cancer Center in Nebraska during 4K for Cancer 2019

Something that characterized this summer for me was travel and adventure. I have always wanted to travel, but have never had the means or the time. This summer, I finally had the chance to explore the world outside of my comfort zone, and it was even better than I had expected. This song by The Lumineers is my favorite song to listen to while traveling. It was introduced to me by one of my teammates on 4K for Cancer in summer of 2019, and I can’t help but have joyful tears come to my eyes when I listen to it and think back to that crazy adventure.

4. Be Kind by Halsey and Marshmello

Halsey has been one of my favorite artists since she started creating music. Her lyrics are always pure poetry. This collaboration with Marshmello is an upbeat song with a deeper meaning that touches on how we tend to hurt the ones who love us best.

5. Don’t Stop Me Now by Queen

It doesn’t matter the time of year or what I have planned for the day – this is always my favorite song to start my day with. It’s the song that always pumps me up and helps me feel ready for my day. 

6 Wishing Well by Juice WRLD (E)

Juice WRLD passed away in December of last year due to an accidental overdose. However, his music has still continued to be released since then, and some of the songs, like this one, reveal just how much the young rapper was struggling. It’s an eye-opening song about depression and addiction set to a deceptively cheery beat. 

7. Thunder by Imagine Dragons

In addition to “Don’t Stop Me Now” by Queen, this is the other tune I always turn to for a little motivation. It featured frequently on my summer queue this year as I struggled with unemployment and began to explore my passions more.

8. It’s Hard to be Human by Kina Grannis

This truly was the vibe of 2020, wasn’t it? It’s hard to be human, but luckily, it’s an experience we all can understand and empathize with. We’re all in this together.

9. I’m Alive (Life Sounds Like) by Michael Franti and Spearhead

The proposal 7/14/20 – Photo by Jon Mauler

I got engaged this summer! I can’t say too much about this song – stay tuned to the blog for more sneak peaks and details about Joseph’s and my 2021 wedding. This is just a little taste.

10. Reckless Love/Even If by Mass Anthem

“Even If” by MercyMe will always be the Christian song that touches my heart most. It was the song that changed my life. “Reckless Love” by Cory Asbury was the song I sang throughout my college years with my friends when we worshipped at Campus Crusade for Christ (CRU) club meetings. The combination of the two creates a song that never fails to bring tears to my eyes. During the hard moments this summer, this was the song I listened to for solace and comfort.

11. Colorado by CHAPPY

The highlight of my summer (besides, of course, getting engaged) was the road trip to Colorado with my new fiancé. This song was the soundtrack of our trip.

12. Own Alone by Bahamas

This was a song Joseph introduced me to, and I just can’t help continuing to listen to it. It has such a unique sound and fun beat; it always makes me smile.

13. How Many Times by Marcus Foster

This song is a bit more chill than some of the others on this list. It’s the perfect summer vibe song for a lazy afternoon in the sun.

14. In the Colors by Ben Harper and the Innocent Criminals

Joseph and me on the top of Mount Royal in Frisco, Colorado

This was Joseph’s and my summer vibe song. We listened to it quite a few times while spending time together in all the colors of summer. 

15. Yellow Lines by Brendan James

Here’s one more of my favorite travel songs because I really did spend much of this summer traveling, specifically road-tripping. Driving along those yellow lines, this was the song I listened to most. This summer, I embarked on many adventures, not just in the places that I went, but in the new, life-changing steps I took in my relationship and career. It was a summer filled with long roads that lead to endless possibilities. 

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Spend your September serving others with this RAOK calendar

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?'” –Martin Luther King, Jr.

Last week, I shared about how important it is to take care of yourself. This week, we are going to talk about the importance of serving others.

We all play a part in making our world a better place. Every day, our actions affect those around us. It is up to us whether these people are impacted in a positive or negative way.

When many people think of service, they think of building homes in impoverished communities or volunteering at a soup kitchen. But there are small things you can do every day in your life to help others, and many of them take minimal effort, if any. Giving someone a compliment, smiling at passerby, or letting someone merge in front of in you in traffic are all examples of random acts of kindness that give other people hope and encouragement.

I think we can all agree that the world right now is hurting even more than usual, and we can all use a pick-me-up because of it. Start the chain of kindness by committing to doing one random act of kindness a day. These can be grand gestures, like paying for someone’s bill at a restaurant, or as simple as holding the door for someone. If you need inspiration, check out the free printable below – it has a different random act of kindness every day so you are constantly challenging yourself to have new experiences and serve your community in new ways.

To keep spreading the positivity, please share any positive or noteworthy experiences you have while serving this month in the comments below.

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I called a meeting with my body…

I called a meeting with my body.

“Everybody out,” I yelled.

My nails slipped off my fingertips as blood dripped to the ground. My hair cascaded down my back to the floor. My eyelashes drooped and then fell. My lips parted, and my teeth toppled out. And then followed all the parts of me hiding inside: My pounding heart and tired lungs, my inept stomach and intestines, my small liver and kidney, and a number of other forgotten, unidentified parts of me plummeted to the ground.

“We need to discuss something important,” I told them. “I am not pleased at how my body is running. We are not working together as a team. We are not doing the best we can. Every day we are failing to meet the standards that have been set.”

“Whose standards,” a tooth piped up.

“It doesn’t matter whose standards,” I spat back.

“Why isn’t the brain here,” the stomach asked. I paused for a moment, surprised. Until now, I had not realized that the brain had neglected to join us.

“Well, I guess because the brain is the one who convinced me to call the meeting,” I said. “The brain is the one who told me that something is wrong.”

“But the brain is part of the problem,” said the heart. “Every day we all work so hard. We labor day and night to make this body function. It’s difficult, but we strive to do our very best. But even after all of that, the brain looks down its nose at us and says that it isn’t good enough – that we are worthless, incompetent and insignificant. The brain tells us that we will never measure up to the other bodies, even though we work just as much, if not more, most days.”

I looked down at my body in shock. There they were lined up, my capable teeth, my delicate but beautiful hair, my strong heart and my powerful lungs; there they all were, hard-working members of my body that had faced so many challenges without ever balking or giving up.

But I could see they were tired. The brain had been working them nonstop. It never let them rest. It always pushed them a little further; it always made them face challenges that were far beyond what most bodies were capable of. And even when the body succeeded, the brain told them that they had not done enough, been enough, were enough. It made the body feel worthless and incapable. It made the body feel as though it could never measure up, even though it was still working, still facing innumerable challenges and beating the odds every day.

The body was not the problem. The problem was me.

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A calendar for Self-Care September

Self-care is always essential, but now it seems even more important than ever. Stresses from back-to-school season, the election, and the looming holidays, all amid a global pandemic, are enough to make anyone feel tense.

Taking care of yourself is an important first step in making sure you can handle the stresses of daily life and still be able to give to others. Self-care is not selfish. It’s a way to make sure your needs are taken care of, so you are able to give more during your daily life.

Self-care looks different for everyone. For some of us, it’s taking hot bubble baths, reading books, or sipping a mug of hot tea. For others, it’s making time to visit with friends and family. And for some people, it’s making time to meal prep, write budgets, and create nightly routines that promote a good night’s rest. What’s important is not what the activity is, but rather that it helps you feel rejuvenated, relaxed, and ready to tackle your next life challenge.

If you aren’t sure what works best for you, check out the free printable below! You can use it simply as inspiration, or follow it for a new, self-care activity each day.

Happy Self-Care September everyone!

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5 supplements your body needs

Supplements have been growing more popular in the health and fitness industry. The trouble is, there are so many out there, it can be difficult to know which ones are right for you.

It’s always best to get the majority of your nutrients from real food, but sometimes food alone can’t provide enough of these essential vitamins and minerals. This is where supplements come in. Supplements can help provide nutrients that you may be lacking in your diet, either because you are choosing not to eat the food source, or because you aren’t able to eat enough of it.

Keep reading to learn more about the supplements that can benefit the average person’s health. Remember, always consult your doctor before adding any supplements to your diet.

Fish Oil

The American diet is heavy in saturated fats. While these fats aren’t necessarily unhealthy, the human body performs better when there is a balance of saturated, monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats in the diet. 

Fish oil supplements provide your needed daily value of monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, so your body can work at its best. Additionally, fish oil supplements have been shown to support eye, heart and skin health, and they can help reduce inflammation in the body.

For best absorption, take your fish oil supplement with dinner or before bed.

Greens

It’s always best to consume your vegetables from whole food sources. However, there are occasions, either because of holidays, travel, or just unexpected changes in our dinner plans, when we don’t get in all of our servings of vegetables for the day.

Greens supplements are for these occasional days when you don’t get in enough veggies, so you can stay on track with your nutrition goals and your body can still work at its best. 

Protein

Protein supplements are a lot like greens supplements – they are for those days when you don’t get enough of the macronutrient from food sources. On those days when your diet is off, either because of holidays or because you just haven’t made it to the grocery store for the week yet, or if you are an athlete who struggles to get enough protein into your diet, protein supplements are a great solution. Protein powder is an easy way to drink the nutrients you need so you can stay on track with your nutrition goals and keep your body performing at its best.

Multivitamn

It’s nearly impossible to have a perfect diet – to get in all the daily values of micronutrients we need would take way too much time and focus. Taking a daily multivitamin helps protect you from a multitude of nutrient deficiencies that are more commonly found in people who choose not to take this daily supplement.

Vitamin D

We all know spending time in the sun is important for our health. But with office jobs, stay-at-home orders, and sunscreen, it can be difficult to get enough sunshine in our lives. Vitamin D supplements can help. These supplements help strengthen our immune system and promote healthy bones and teeth, especially for children and older adults.

Not all supplements are created equal. Because of different laws and regulations, or lack thereof, in different countries, some companies are selling supplements that are not as high of quality and/or do not deliver the benefits they promise. For this reason, I recommend always doing your research about the company you purchase from, or, let me do the work for you. I work with Nature’s Sunshine, a reputable company that has been making quality supplements for over 50 years. If you are interested in purchasing a supplement, use this link to get 25% off your order!

Supplementation is a holistic way to take charge of your health. These five supplements listed above are ones the average person can benefit from using. However, if you are interested in learning more about your specific health and supplement needs, consider scheduling an appointment for a ZYTO scan.

ZYTO scans help us to look at an overall picture of your health. Based on that information, I am able to recommend supplements that will best help bring your body back into balance. It’s a more personalized and in-depth approach to holistic health that can help you feel and perform at your best.

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5 common myths in the fitness and nutrition industry

Health is wealth.

Unfortunately, that sentiment has created an industry focused far more on profit than individuals’ actual health, and that has caused many false claims about nutrition and physical fitness to be spread without control. Extreme views in the fitness and nutrition world have been celebrated because these lifestyles receive the most attention on social media, therefore they earn the most profit. However, this has caused balanced lifestyle choices to become less attractive as extreme workouts and eliminative diets grow most popular.

Balance, however, is very important in all areas of life, including physical fitness and nutrition. Extreme diets and workouts cannot only cause more damage than they do good; they can actually cause more stress and can have less success because people have trouble sticking to their unrealistic goals.

So, here are five common myths that have been spread in the fitness and nutrition industry, and healthier ways to actually approach creating a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

Myth #1: Carbs are not good for you

Despite the focus of the most recent fad diets, carbs are not actually bad for you.

There are a couple of reasons why carbohydrates are thought to be the main cause of weight gain. First, many carbs are calorically dense, so eating a lot of carbs can mean eating an excess of calories. Second, some carbs are high in refined sugar, which is known to cause inflammation and weight gain. Third, some people are very successful on a low-carb diet. People with a naturally large body type tend to function best when they eat more fats and less carbs. The thing is, not everyone who is overweight has a naturally large body shape – most people who are overweight just have an excess of fat. People who have a naturally large body shape (the endomorphic body type) are actually healthy at a larger size – think of football players or higher weight class wrestlers. The average body shape (a mesomorphic body type) actually functions best when they eat a balance of carbs and fats. 

An excess of any macronutrient, whether it be carbs, fats or protein, can cause weight gain, not just carbohydrates. And there are plenty of healthy carbs that can be part of a balanced diet, such as whole-grain bread, fruit, and starchy vegetables like potatoes. 

If you are trying to lose weight, minimizing your carb intake can be helpful, but drastic decreases in intake or complete elimination of carbs are not necessary for success. In fact, trying to stick to such a strict diet can harbor success, and eliminating necessary nutrients can make it harder to lose weight. So, instead of eliminating or drastically reducing your carb intake, aim for a balance between your carb, fat and protein intake and make sure you are eating healthier carb sources. Try to eat more carbs from whole food sources, such as fruit and starchy vegetables, and fewer carbs from packages. You may find that it’s not that carbs make you gain weight, but that you are eating too many of them or that you are eating carbs from unhealthier sources. 

Myth #2: Doing a lot of high-intensity cardio exercise is the best way to lose weight

Cardio exercise is defined as any exercises that raises your heart and respiratory rate. According to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), a healthy amount of exercise includes doing 30 minutes of moderate-intensity cardio, such as strength training, hiking or playing sports, for five days per week; or doing 25 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity, such as running, bicycling or HIIT training, three days per week.

Many people seem to think that they have to elevate their heart rate to high levels during every workout in order to lose weight. However, having a balance of moderate cardio exercise and high-intensity cardio exercise during your week is the best way to achieve healthy weight loss. Strength training (a moderate cardio exercise) increases muscle mass, which in turn increases metabolic rate, which means you burn more calories throughout your day. In contrast to this, high-intensity calorie exercises burn lots of calories while doing the workout, but they don’t keep up that caloric burn throughout your day. 

For the best results, try to include both high-intensity and moderate-intensity cardio exercise in your fitness program. If you are trying to lose weight, aim to include a total of at least five hours of physical activity in your week. This can include both cardio workouts and lower-intensity exercises, such as walking and yoga

Myth #3: Eating 1,200 calories per day is a healthy way to lose weight

There are a lot of diets that promote restricting calories rather than just restricting one macronutrient to achieve weight loss goals.

Calories are a form of energy. How many calories a food has directly translates to how much energy it gives the body. The amount of calories a food has is determined by how much the body will increase in temperature when eating that food. According to US Department of Agriculture, “one Calorie is the amount of heat required to raise the temperature of one kilogram of water one degree Celsius.”

This is all very scientific, so unless you are pursuing a career in nutrition or biomedical science, it’s unlikely you need to understand how this works. What you do need to know is the higher in calories the food is, the more energy it is supposed to give the body. The reason this sometimes doesn’t work, though, is because heavily processed foods tend to be high in calories but low in nutritional value. This means that they will give your body lots of energy, but only for a short burst of time, which will cause you to become hungry again far sooner than you would have from eating a more nutritionally dense food. This can cause people to overeat. When people eat an excess of calories, meaning they eat more calories than they burn throughout their day, their energy balance is thrown off, therefore they gain weight.

This is the thinking behind low-calorie diets. By decreasing the amount of calories you eat in a day, you will create a negative energy balance, which means you will burn more calories than you eat. When this happens, you lose weight.

However, this doesn’t always work. When calorie intake gets too low, the body can go into “starvation mode.” When this happens, the metabolism, which helps you burn calories throughout your day, slows down in an effort to keep your body safe. When your metabolism slows, so does your weight loss. Eating a strict, low-calorie diet for a longer amount of time can also put the body at risk for a number of health conditions, such as hair loss, infertility, constipation, and hypoglycemia

The reason the number of 1200 calories has grown in popularity is because this has been said to the be the minimum amount of calories your body needs to survive. This is true, but that does not mean it’s a good calorie amount to aim for. This is the amount of calories the body burns without doing anything else, which means if you do anything beyond lying in bed all day, you are going to burn more calories than this. In order to achieve a healthy, sustainable weight loss, it’s important that you eat fewer calories than you are burning, but not excessively fewer calories. 

Rather than trying to figure out exactly how many calories your body needs to function, I recommend focusing on your macronutrient intake and exercise volume. When you sit down to eat, make sure your plate includes healthy fats, protein, vegetables, and nutritionally-dense carbs. This way, you will make sure that you are not only eating enough calories, but you are getting your calories from vitamin- and mineral-rich sources that will provide your body with the nutrients it needs to perform at its best. And rather than trying to restrict the amount you are eating, focus more on increasing the amount of activity in your day. This way, you will still be consuming all of the nutrients your body needs, but you will still be achieving a negative energy balance because you are burning more calories through your day. By focusing on your macronutrient intake and increasing your exercise volume, you will be able to achieve and sustainable, healthy weight loss and more attainable nutrition and fitness goals.

Myth #4: Cheat meals and days are a necessary part of a fitness program

Cheat meals are an interesting topic because for some people they are a great way to help them achieve their goals, and for others, they discourage goal attainment.

The thought behind cheat days and meals is that, if you spend one meal or day eating an excess of calories, it will jump-start your metabolism. This can work, but most people who have success with cheat days and meals are benefitting from the mental rather than the physical aspect. Regularly scheduling meals or days that they can eat freely helps people to stick to their daily nutrition goals because they know they will be able to eat more of what they want soon. 

However, for some people, cheat meals and days work the opposite way. Because people  have been restricting themselves so severely, when they are finally allowed the chance to eat something they want, they eat in excess. When this happens regularly, it can actually derail progress that happened during the rest of the week. 

The one thing I don’t like about cheat meals and days is that they imply that eating less nutrient-dense foods is “cheating.” No one likes being a “cheater.” It’s a strict diet mindset that, I think, does more harm mentally than it does any good, mentally or physically.

The best advice I can give is to try to achieve a balance in your nutritional lifestyle regularly. When you see a food you want to eat that is less nutrient dense, enjoy the food, but then try to eat healthier throughout the day to achieve a balance in your eating. Find joy in giving your body foods that make it feel good, and then, on special occasions or when you are craving them, enjoy foods that delight your senses. When you focus more on what your body needs rather than restricting yourself from foods, you will find that your body often craves the foods that will best support it. Rather than incorporating cheat days and meals into a strict diet, focus on building a lifestyle that includes occasional treats and indulgences. 

Myth #5: You have to push through pain in your workouts to achieve results

My fitness feed is often filled with quotes like “No pain, no gain,” written in dark letters against backgrounds of heavy weights. I see posts encouraging people to work harder by saying, “Pain is temporary, pride is forever,” and “Let’s see how far I can go.”“When my body shouts, ‘stop,’ my mind screams, ‘never,’” is another popular quote that I actually find alarming. 

Let me explain the problem behind these quotes. They do have the power to motivate someone, but I think they often push people a little too far. When I first began my fitness journey, it was these quotes that ran through my head as I pushed myself to run just one extra mile, lift just one extra rep, or wake up just a little bit earlier to workout. And these can all be great things to do if you’re listening to your body and know the signs of when to push through a workout and when to give your body rest. For me, with little fitness experience at the time, it was these quotes that pushed me to fracture my leg during a run because of the stress I had put on it. 

Unless you are an elite athlete pushing through intense competitions, pain should not be a regular feature of your workouts. You don’t need pain to grow your muscles; what is needed is discomfort. 

What is the difference between pain and discomfort? Pain leads to injuries, while discomfort leads to growth. When you are just starting out with an exercise program, it can be difficult to tell the difference, but as you continue working out, it will become clear when your body is growing and when it is telling you to stop. 

However, there are a couple of ways to determine whether you are experiencing pain or discomfort. Discomfort is eased as soon as you release the pressure you are holding on your body, either by dropping a weight or releasing a stretch. Discomfort can feel irritating, but it isn’t intense. It builds slowly during an exercise, and it goes away, or at least decreases dramatically, when you stop. Pain, on the other hand, is sharp and intense. It comes quickly and lingers even after you stop the exercise. Pain can affect your form, and it gets increasingly worse if you try to push through the workout. 

If you are feeling discomfort, it is okay to continue to push through the exercise for a short while – this can lead to muscle growth and increased exercise adaptation. However, if you feel pain, stop the exercise. Giving your body the rest and recovery it needs can make the difference between a day off from the gym, or weeks to months recovering from an injury. 

There is a lot of confusing, conflicting information in the fitness and nutrition world about how to approach a healthy lifestyle. The best advice I can give is to listen to your own body. It knows what it needs. 

If you need some help navigating the plethora of information about health and wellness, or if you need some guidance in your fitness journey, contact me. Evolve is focused on achieving a healthy, balanced lifestyle through holistic wellness, mindful eating, and activity that fits your way of life. 

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