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10 easy ways to practice self-care this fall

October 26, 2021 No Comments

Fall is my favorite season. With the crisp, beautiful weather, colorful trees, fun activities, the holidays not far away, & an entire month dedicated to gratitude, I think I have good reason to believe it is the most wonderful time of the year.

Self-care is important any time of the year, but I think it also becomes extra meaningful in the fall. As the weather grows colder & the days become shorter, we tend to find ourselves indoors, away from the sunshine & fresh air. Even if you don’t suffer from seasonal affective disorder (SAD) (a type of depression related to the changing seasons, often believed to be caused in part by the limited amount of sunlight), the time spent cooped up inside can still be bad for your mental & physical health. When you add on the stress of the coming holidays, it can be even more difficult to feel relaxed & keep a smile on your face.

If you are looking for some ways to show yourself some meaningful self-care this fall, check out the list below. As I have noted in previous blog posts, self-care is a very personal experience, & you should always make time to do things that bring you joy & comfort. But, there is nothing wrong with switching up your regular routine to reflect the unique joys & challenges that each season brings. Try a few activities, find what works best for you, & keep it in your back pocket for the next stressful day ahead.

1. Go for a walk outside

It may be growing colder, but the unbearable winter days have not arrived yet. In fact, this time of year is perfect for a walk outside. The cooler weather means you won’t be profusely sweating through your workout, & the changing leaves make a beautiful scenic backdrop for a lovely stroll. Put on a light jacket, find a trail, & leave your worries behind. You can go alone, or bring a friend with you for a nice chat while you admire the scenery.

2. Make a meal with fresh fall produce

Harvest Bowl with Pumpkin Polenta – find healthy fall recipes, including this one, here

I love fall produce. Squash, pumpkin, apples…the recipe possibilities are endless. Cooking can be a fun activity to relieve stress, & at the end, you get something delicious to eat! Find a fall recipe on Pinterest, visit a farmer’s market, & do something kind for your body & mind by making a meal with the fresh ingredients you find.

3. Treat yourself to your favorite candy on Halloween

As a nutrition coach, people often think I am completely anti-sugar. And, on normal occasions, I do recommend that you limit sugar in your diet as much as possible. But, as a nutrition coach, I also recognize that living a balanced lifestyle means eating things that you love, & sometimes that includes candy.

This Halloween, treat yourself to your favorite childhood candy bar or a lovely pumpkin dessert. One treat won’t hurt your physical health, & it can actually be great for your mental health to break your regular healthy eating routine with a little treat. Treating ourselves every once in a while helps us stick to our healthy eating goals & can actually be calming to a mind that feels overwhelmed by a stricter eating routine (if this is you, I encourage you to follow my holistic health Instagram page Evolve – it’s full of recipes & inspiration to prove that healthy eating does not have to mean restrictive eating).

As a side note, I feel it’s always necessary to tell everyone that desserts are not rewards for your hard work – they are little gifts just for just being you. You don’t have to earn your treats – you are already deserving of them. We make healthy choices because we love ourselves, not to punish ourselves – the same goes for giving ourselves dessert.

4. Take a weekend trip

Joseph & me on a recent trip to an apple orchard in Pennsylvania

Nothing seems more romantic to me than a fall getaway in the mountains. And in this case, I define “romantic” as “alluring,” because you can absolutely treat yourself to a weekend getaway by yourself. If you’re not a forest or mountains person, it’s still warm enough in the Southern states for a trip to the beach. Treat yourself to a night or a whole weekend away, by yourself or with someone you love.

5. Read your favorite book

I love cozying up to a good book, a mug of tea in my hand & a blanket around my shoulders. It is the perfect activity for a chilly day. Read an old favorite, or finally crack open that book that’s been at the top of your list for months.

6. Get a full night’s sleep

This time of year, the nights are longer, & for good reason: This is a time for hibernation. Take advantage of the extra dark hours by going to be early. Your body’s natural melatonin levels increase this time of year when the world gets darker. Do what your body is calling you to do naturally by giving yourself a little extra rest.

7. Find your new favorite indoor workout

If you have been exercising outdoors all summer, this can be a great time of year to switch up your routine & find a new indoor exercise routine that you love! Join a local gym & go to a new class, or browse the thousands of workouts on YouTube. I personally love POPSUGA R Fitness.

8. Take a bath

It’s cold outside! Warm your body & relax with a hot bath in the evening. You can bring your favorite book or just listen to relaxing music. To benefit even more, pour some epsom salts into the water to help detoxify your body & reduce inflammation. A little therapeutic-grade lavender essential oil can also help in calming the mind.

9. Declutter your space

You are spending a lot more time inside these days, which means your environment indoors needs to be just as healthy as it would be outdoors. Take some time to clean & declutter. Make the space you spend time in inviting & calming. If you find things you no longer want, donate them to help make someone else’s day better, too!

10. Focus on what you’re grateful for

Photo by Gabrielle Henderson on Unsplash

November is the month of gratitude. What if you kept the practice going all season? End every day with writing down what you are thankful for. You will be amazed at how quickly this little practice can change your mindset to one of gratitude & abundance. Throughout your day, you will find yourself searching for & taking notice to, not for the things that bother you, but for the things that bring you joy.

What are your favorite fall self-care activities? Leave a comment below!

P.S. Do you need more self-care in your life? Check out the Sunshine Box, a personalized subscription box filled with items to help you have more self-care in your life. Learn more here.

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10 easy ways to practice self-care this summer

June 15, 2021 No Comments

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Note: Read all the way to the end of this article for a special summer giveaway opportunity!

Summer is finally here, which means it’s the perfect time to get some sunlight, relax & recharge. And especially after the year we all had, I think it’s time for a little extra self-care time.

Self-care is a very personal experience, & it should always be spent doing things that specifically bring you joy & comfort. But, there’s nothing wrong with switching up your self-care activities to reflect the unique joys that each season brings. Summer is full of fun ways to show yourself some love.

Read on for 10 easy ways to practice self-care this season.

1. Soak up some sunshine

This is by far the simplest way to practice self-care this season, but it’s still super important. When we are exposed to sunlight, our brains release serotonin, otherwise known as the “happy hormone.” Serotonin not only boosts our mood; it also helps us to feel calm & focused, which means more productive lives. In addition to this, the sun gives us Vitamin D, which is linked to better bone health, & it can actually help promote healthy skin! That glowing look you want can be achieved by spending time in the sun’s rays! Just make sure you show your skin a little extra self-care & wear lots of sunscreen.

2. Go off the grid

Physically & socially, spend some time off the grid this summer. Get out of town. Plan a vacation & treat yourself. And when you do, consider staying unplugged from your phone. I know, there are tons of Instagrammable photos to share on vacation, but you can always share them later. Give yourself a little time to be present with those around you, or just to yourself, because you deserve your undivided attention as well.

3. Spend time with people who make you feel good

Distance yourself from negativity & spend time with people who make you feel good. Now that COVID-19 restrictions are lifting, you can finally go out to brunch, swim in the pool, or go to a concert with the people that matter most to you. Plan a picnic, go on a walk, or just give someone you love a phone call. Studies show that spending time with people helps reduce the symptoms of many mental health conditions, including anxiety & depression, & building strong relationships helps provide support when you are experiencing challenging situations.

4. Wear what makes you feel confident

Me on the beach in South Carolina the week of the Solar Eclipse, 2017

Every body is a beach body. Whether it’s a bikini, a sundress, a one-piece, or a sarong, wear what makes you feel most beautiful & confident to the beach, & don’t give one thought to what other people think. There is nothing more beautiful than a woman who dresses with dignity & carries herself with confidence.

5. Drink more water

My Fill It Forward water bottle that I received in my Be Kind by Ellen subscription box

This is important all year long, but it’s especially important in summer. When we sweat, we lose water, & when our bodies are dehydrated, they don’t function properly. Signs of dehydration include fatigue, constipation, dry skin, & headaches, & severe dehydration can cause low blood pressure, heat exhaustion, seizures, heat stroke, kidney failure, & coma. Keep your body hydrated by drinking water throughout your day. You can add more flavor to your water by adding fresh fruits, herbs, or vegetables. One refreshing combination I love is cucumber, mint & lime. Or, if I’m in the mood for something sweet, I love adding freshly chopped berries. If you’re doing activities outdoors, consider adding electrolytes to your water – choose low-sugar brands that will replenish the sodium, magnesium, & potassium you are losing through your sweat without loading up on sugar. When you keep your body hydrated, it gives you more energy & helps you to feel your best.

6. Visit a farmer’s market

Joseph & me at the farmer’s market picking out fresh produce for a picnic dinner

With spring & early summer gardens finally in full bloom, this is the perfect opportunity to visit your local farmer’s market & pick out fresh produce to cook with. It supports a local business, & it also a fun way to eat healthy. Look for recipe inspiration on Pinterest, or just start experimenting in the kitchen!

7. Get active outdoors

Joseph & me on a hike near Loch Raven Reservoir

Get outside & enjoy the warm weather while exercising. There are lots of fun summer activities that are also great forms of exercise, including kayaking, swimming, & hiking. Try to go out early in the morning or later in the evening to avoid the hottest parts of the day, & make sure to wear sunscreen while you’re outdoors.

8. Wake up with the sun

Enjoy your summer days to the fullest by waking up with the sun. Bringing natural light into your room & waking up with the sunrise is a much more gentle way to wake up, as opposed to a blaring alarm clock. This means you wake up more refreshed & ready to tackle your day! And, if you do this consistently, your circadian rhythm will adjust, which means deeper sleep & more productive days.

9. Start a garden

Gardening can be a great way to get active outdoors & bring yourself some joy. The routine tasks can be calming, & you can find great joy in cultivating a plant & helping it to grow. Plant flowers to brighten up your space, or try planting a vegetable garden & use the fresh produce to cook healthy meals.

10. Read an inspirational book

One of my favorite inspirational reads, You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero

Whether you’re relaxing on the beach or spending a day indoors away from the heat, summer is the perfect time to start a new book. Why not find something inspirational? Pick a topic you are interested in, or simply search for inspirational books online or at your local library to find your new uplifting read.

Alright, as promised, it is giveaway time!

Much of my blog is dedicated to helping my readers find more self-care in their lives. To help inspire you to take better care of yourself this summer, I have a challenge that could help you win some special prizes!

The Summer Self-Care Bingo Challenge includes all the self-care activities listed above, plus 14 more ways to show yourself some extra love this summer. Complete 5 activities in a row, column, or diagonally to win a month-long subscription to Sticker of the Month & the weekly newsletter. Complete the entire board, & you will a FREE Sunshine Box! That’s right – spend more time this summer dedicated to self-care, & you can get more self-care delivered right to your doorstep!

To complete a bingo square, post a selfie of you completing the activity on Instagram & tag me @TylerVLayne with the hashtag #SummerSelfCareBingo, & I will do the rest of the work for you. The Summer Self-Care Bingo Challenge will start June 15 & will end August 30.

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Grove Collaborative review: The easiest way to live an eco-friendly life

April 22, 2021 4 Comments

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Happy Earth Day!

For some time, I have wanted to switch to more natural products & sustainable living practices. I made a few changes here & there, but I struggled with finding ways to reduce my waste or carbon footprint that weren’t unbelievably inconvenient. And many of the natural products that I encountered were far too pricey for my young adult budget. I knew switching to natural products was good for the environment & myself, but I thought it would have to be something that I did when I was more established with a full-time job & benefits.

Grove Collaborative changed everything. Grove is a natural home & personal care brand that delivers everything you need for a sustainable, healthy home right to your door. All of the products are made with natural ingredients that are healthy for you & the environment, & they all help reduce household waste. Additionally, Grove carbon offsets every delivery, & every purchase benefits the Arbor Day Foundation, which plants trees to help solve a number of the world’s problems today, including air & water quality, climate change, deforestation, & hunger.

Grove is a monthly subscription, but you can skip months & edit your cart to include the products you want, so it’s honestly a great way to get the products you want, when you want or need them. You can customize the process every step of the way.

My future sister-in-law (but already sister-at-heart) Joanna introduced me to Grove just after I moved into my new house. She was already a subscriber, & she recommended it to me when I mentioned that I wanted to switch to more sustainable products. After checking out the app, I knew immediately that it was something I was interested in, & I purchased my first box the same day.

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I could not be more pleased with my first Grove delivery. My box contained silicone straws, reusable bags, walnut & cellulose sponges, bamboo tissues, a glass spray bottle, a glass soap dispenser, toilet bowl cleaner, moisturizing hand sanitizer, dishwasher detergent packs, gel hand soap, glass cleaner concentrate, toilet spray, three reusable cotton face masks, compostable cleaning wipes, & bamboo toilet paper. Now that I have had the chance to try out all of these products, I am happy to report they are all up to my cleanliness standards, & I am quite sure I am going to be a Grove subscriber for life.

The silicone straws are a cute, turquoise blue color, so now I can sip my summer drinks in style. They are durable, & the pack of four straws comes with a bottle brush to help keep them clean.

The reusable bags are adorable. I purchased a set of two, one large & one small, that had a lemon design to match my kitchen (which is tones of blue & green with lemon yellow accents). The bags are air-tight & keep my snacks fresh, & they are easy to clean as well. All you have to do is rinse them out with soap & water & let them dry.

Seedling Tissues by Grove on my coffee table

The walnut & cellulose sponge is another great product. The sponge scrubs as hard as I want it to, but it’s still gentle on my pots & pans & it’s durable, too. It’s made from plant cellulose & walnuts, so when the time does come to throw it away, it will naturally break down (no more plastic sponges sitting in landfills).

The bamboo tissues are one of my favorite products in this box. The tissues are thick & soft, which feels great on my irritated nose during allergy season. They are made from sustainable bamboo instead of trees, so there’s less deforestation. The bamboo toilet paper is made the same way, and, this may be too much information but to be perfectly honest, my butt has never felt more pampered. The toilet paper is three-ply, which I wasn’t aware that I needed but now that I’ve had it, I don’t think I can ever go back. It’s soft & thick, which means it feels good & I need less toilet paper per toilet visit. This means that, despite it maybe being a little more expensive than your average roll, it lasts longer, which I think makes up for the price.

I wish I had been using the moisturizing hand sanitizer all winter. It has a lovely scent, & it feels so good on my dry hands. After lathering up with hand sanitizer regularly for over a year now, I needed this product. It is my new best friend whenever I leave the house.

And speaking of COVID-19, the three reusable, cotton face masks I received are some of the most comfortable face masks I have ever had! They fit perfectly, which is something no face mask has done yet, & they are super cute. I love the striped yellow & white one – it perfectly fits my vibe. And the two green & blue toned masks match so many outfits. And they aren’t just fashionable! The masks have three layers, and the inner layer is anti-microbial, making it a great choice to stay safe during this pandemic.

Me & my new reusable face masks from Grove

One thing I often hear about natural cleaning products is that they aren’t as effective as the ones made with harsh chemicals. Until trying Grove, I actually believed this, but I am happy to report that this is a myth. The dishwasher detergent packs gave me sparkling clean dishes – I honestly think they look better than when I use my normal dish detergent. The glass cleaner concentrate worked wonders on my smudgy windows, & the toilet bowl cleaner got everything clean with minimal effort. And the compostable cleaning wipes are the first product yet that has gotten my counters as clean as I want them. I cannot wait to try more cleaning products from Grove.

Speaking of toilets, the toilet spray was also quite pleasant. I have used Poo-Pourri before, & I thought this had just as nice of a scent, albeit not as strong. So, if you’re looking for a more mild scent (Poo-Pourri has a very strong scent – it’s for the bigger poos), this toilet spray is a great choice.

The lavender & thyme hand soap smells so lovely, but it’s not over-powering or super feminine like a lot of nice smelling soaps are. Even Joseph liked it, & we almost never agree on a soap scent (he even put up his own soap dispenser in the bathroom because he can’t stand the lemon soap I have in there). My hands also feel squeaky clean after using this soap, which means it gets an A+ grade from me. The glass soap dispenser & spray bottle are both a simple but fashionable design that will match any decor, & they both have a durability to them that makes me believe they are going to last for a while.

Me & my new lavender & thyme hand soap from Grove

If you’ve been looking for a way to switch to natural cleaning products, reduce waste, live in a healthier environment, or just to live a little more sustainably, Grove is a great choice. The chemicals that are harsh for the environment are bad for our bodies as well. Grove makes it easy to make your home a healthy environment, for you & the earth.

Do you want to try Grove without the commitment? I have a great surprise for you. Use this link to try your first Grove box for FREE! If you don’t like it, you can cancel your subscription at any time (but if you enjoy lovely smelling cleaning & beauty products that are good for you & the environment, you’re going to love it).

Switching to sustainable living can seem overwhelming, but small changes, like using natural cleaning products or drinking from reusable water bottles, make an impact. It might not seem like much, but if we all do it, those small changes add up to having a big impact on our earth’s health.

We only have two places to live: Our bodies & our world. Appreciate them, love them, & take care of them.

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Need a gift for Mother’s Day? Here are 12 self-care gifts she’ll love

April 12, 2021 2 Comments

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Moms are the best. No matter what, they are always there to support us. For her child, a mother’s love is unconditional. But for herself – well, Moms tend to be a little hard on themselves.

Just like the rest of us, Moms need some rest & love. This Mother’s Day, give your Mom the gift she really needs: The gift of self-care. Check out the list below for gifts that will not just show how much you love your mom, but also will help her love herself better.

For the mom who loves bubble baths, this spa gift set

Bring the spa home to your mom with this delightful, citrus-scented care package from Lizush. Made with all-natural ingredients, all of the products are scented with essential oils & colored with spices & herbs – there are no artificial dyes or colors! The gift set includes everything your mom would need for a full day of pampering: a citrus soap bar, grapefruit body oil, a facial clay mask, a shower steamer, lip balm, a soy candle, a grapefruit bath bomb, & a facial towel & sponge. Check it out on Amazon.

For the mom who needs time to de-stress, this gratitude journal boxed set

Gratitude has a way of changing our entire outlook on life. It helps us to appreciate more of what we have, & it can make things that once seemed ordinary much more extraordinary. If your mom is in need of some de-stressing & mindset shifting, this Gratitude Boxed Gift Set from Inner World is a great choice. It comes with a 90-day morning- & night-reflection journal to help mom cultivate a daily gratitude practice, as well as mini book full of quotes, meditations, & more gratitude inspirations, & a little candle to help her get into the right mindset when she sits down to reflect. You can buy it on Amazon here.

For the mom who likes to sit with a warm cup of tea, this organic tea gift set

There’s nothing like curling up with a warm blanket & a hot cup of tea. If your mom likes to start her day with a hot mug between her hands, or if it’s how she winds down at night, she will love this Numi organic tea gift set. It comes with 4 different types of organic tea & a glass infusion bottle with a strainer. It’s the perfect way to enjoy tea at home or on-the-go! You can buy it from Amazon here.

For the mom who loves a relaxed ambience, this candle-making set

If your mom loves candles, this is the perfect gift for her. Now she can make her own with this premium soy candle kit from DIY Gift Kits. It comes with therapeutic grade essential oils rather than fragrance oils for adding scents to the candles, so she won’t be inhaling any chemicals from her finished candle product. You can buy the gift set on Amazon here.

For the fitness-focused mom, this restore self-guided kit

If mom likes to spend her time pounding the pavement or lifting weights at the gym, chances are, she’s feeling a little sore. Give her muscles a good stretch with this restore self-guided kit from Gaiam. The 10-mm thick, cushioned mat; 65cm stability ball; 18″x6″ foam roller; & resistance bands all come with illustrated, printed instructions on the products for ways to use them. Now, Mom doesn’t have to search through Pinterest to find the correct stretches to relax her sore muscles. You can find the full kit here.

For the mom who needs a cup of coffee to get her day started, this healthy flavored coffee set

Coffee Over Cardio Flavored Barista Bundl e

Coffee Over Cardio makes flavored coffee that’s both healthy & delicious! With no added sweeteners, this Keto-friendly coffee brand makes drinking coffee shop-quality coffee every day both possible & affordable. You can get 10% off the Flavored Barista Bundle, which includes ground or K-pod coffee, energizing coffee creamer, hydrating electrolytes, a FREE T-shirt, & a reusable K-pod, with the promo code 10TYLERVLAYNE (or use this code for any product you like on the website!). You can find the Flavored Barista Bundle here.

For the yogi mom, this yoga mat, strap & block kit

Give mom the tools she needs for a relaxing yoga session at home with this Yoga Kit from Gaiam. There are three different color options to choose from, & if Mom is just beginning her yoga practice, two of the colors (the purple & blue) come with indicators on the mat of where to place her hands & feet. Each set comes with a 4mm yoga mat & a yoga block & strap to help improve mobility & flexibility. You can find the yoga kits here.

For the zen mom, this meditation cushion kit

Zafu & Zabuton Meditation Kit from Gaiam

The last thing you want to be distracted by during your meditation is body aches & pains. Bring some comfort to Mom’s meditation session with this Zafu & Zabuton meditation kit from Gaiam. They are soft & comfortable, with body conforming cotton & a removable, machine-washable, microfiber cover. It will help Mom get into the zone, as well as improve her posture & relieve any pressure on her joints & spine. You can find the meditation kit here.

For the mom who enjoys a little indulgence, this gourmet bonbons & macarons gift set

MAE Fine Foods Gourmet Chocolate Bonbons & French Macarons Set

As Charles M. Schulz so wisely said, “All you need is love. But a little chocolate now & then doesn’t hurt.” If Mom enjoys a little indulgent treat at the end of the day, give her this lovely, gourmet chocolate bonbons & French macarons set from MAE Fine Foods. It’s made with all-natural ingredients, including fruit purees by Les vergers Boiron imported from France & gourmet chocolate imported from Belgium. It’s a delicious gift Mom is going to love. You can find it here.

For the mom who is trying to eat healthy, this box full of tasty snacks

Have you heard of CraveBox? It’s a subscription box that delivers fun snacks right to your door! This healthy care package has a mix of 30 different sweet & savory snacks to satisfy any craving. It’s the perfect yummy treat that won’t ruin her diet. Check it out on Amazon.

For the mom who enjoys a glass of vino at the end of the day, this wine-making kit

If your mom is a wine enthusiast, she is going to love this wine-making kit from Fontana. This award-winning kit uses high-quality ingredients from California, so Mom can make the best tasting glass of wine she has ever had, right in the comfort of her home! You can choose the wine flavor & buy the kit here.

And no matter what your mom enjoys, she is going to love the Sunshine Box

The Sunshine Box is a personalized, self-care kit made just for Mom. You can fill out the form below with all of your mom’s likes & dislikes, & I will personally create a box specially made just for her! You can choose a one-month subscription for just $30 + shipping, or get FREE SHIPPING when you buy a 6-month subscription (a PayPal link is sent to your email after purchasing for payment). It’s the perfect way to show Mom how well you know & how much you love her.

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10 seasonal ways to practice self-care this spring

March 26, 2021 4 Comments

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Self-care is important any time of year, but spring is the perfect season to take a little extra time for yourself. While the world is waking from its slumber & committing itself to new growth once again, you can do the same.

Spending some time to engage in self-care looks different for everyone. It’s important to match the type of self-care you use with what is actually beneficial & meaningful to you. A bubble bath can be a great way to relax, but if you don’t have a comfortable place to soak, your muscles don’t need to relax, or, even worse, if you don’t even like soaking in baths, this may not be the best way to engage in self-care for you. I find it interesting when people force themselves to do self-care, & they choose an activity that they don’t enjoy & get it done like just any other task on their to-do list. Self-care should be something that you need & that brings relief & relaxation to your life in some way. This means that sometimes it is indulgent, like eating chocolate or bingeing on your favorite Netflix show, but sometimes its actually less glamorous, like cleaning out your closet or spending a day getting all the things done that never make it onto your to-do list. No matter what, at the end of your activity, you should feel some sort of relief & feel better about your current state in life.

With that being said, I love to theme my activities to the season I am in, personally & in the world. Spring is a perfect time for self-care because there are so many things you can do! Listed below are 10 ways you can engage in self-care this spring. As stated above, make sure you choose one that is meaningful to you, & enjoy your self-care time! You deserve it.

1. Go for a walk

Me walking on some railroad tracks in Missouri

The weather has finally gotten warmer, which means it is the perfect time to go for a relaxed walk outdoors & enjoy some fresh air. If you are looking to get your heart & adrenaline pumping a little more, go for a run or bike ride. The clean air & physical activity are good for your mental & physical health.

2. Do some spring cleaning

The time for spring cleaning is here, but this doesn’t have to be treated like just another annoying task you have to complete. Making your environment clean & orderly is beneficial for your mental health. A cluttered space encourages a cluttered mind. Take some time to purge your house of things you no longer need, & then take some time to clean up & maybe even decorate your environment in a new way that brings you joy, not just for the day, but for months to come.

3. Make a healthy meal with ingredients from the farmer’s market

Me & Joseph buying ingredients from the farmer’s market the day he proposed

Healthy food nourishes our body & helps us feel our best. Why not support a local farmer’s market & take some time for yourself by making a gourmet meal with all fresh ingredients? It’s a fun activity, & a healthy way to take to nourish your body.

4. Plan a day-trip

Joseph & me on Strasburg Rail Road in Pennsylvania during our day trip – watch Joseph’s vlog about the trip here

Now that the weather is warmer, it is the perfect time to go for a trip. Plan your itinerary for little getaway in your local tourist spot, or make it more spontaneous & just walk around the area to see what attracts you most. You can do it alone for some quality time with you, or go with your family or a friend for some much-needed social time.

5. Start a new skincare routine

Me using my new Aceology ice globe facial massagers from my Be Kind by Ellen spring subscription box

If you’re anything like me, your skin is feeling a little dry & pale after a long, cold winter. Try out a new skincare routine to help moisturize your cracked skin & give it a fresh glow for the new season.

6. Plant a garden

My brother, Jake, & me collecting the produce from our garden my junior year of high school

It’s good for you, & its good for the environment, too. Spend some time getting in some physical activity by planting a garden, & then reap the benefits for months to come with the fresh, healthy & delicious produce you harvest. Or, plant a flower garden & let the bright colors & lovely scents bring you joy every day.

7. Buy yourself flowers

The beautiful yellow roses Joseph gave me for Valentine’s Day

If you aren’t into gardening, bring spring into your home by buying yourself some fresh flowers. Put them in a lovely vase on your table or wherever you will see them to brighten your space. A little touch of spring indoors is a great way to celebrate the season & show yourself some love.

8. Diffuse spring-themed essential oils

Bring the lovely smells of spring into your home by diffusing spring-themed essential oils, such as lemongrass, lavender, eucalyptus, & citrus scents like lemon & tangerine. Diffusing essential oils can help reduce stress, & different essential oils have additional benefits, such as using lavender to help reduce insomnia or peppermint to relieve headaches.

9. Make a batch of fruit-infused water

Fresh fruits are in abundance, which means it’s the perfect time to make fruit-infused water. If you are terrible at drinking your daily intake of water, or if you just want to switch up the flavor a little bit, try chopping up fresh fruit & putting it in a pitcher of water to infuse. It is a delicious way to hydrate our bodies, which helps our body systems to work as they are supposed to, as well as brightens our skin, gives us more energy, & improves our mood.

10. Start a new hobby

My new favorite crafting hobby is paper crafts with Washi Tape! This is the valentine I made Joseph this year

Spring is the time of new beginnings, so why not try something new? If you want to do something healthy for your body, try a new exercise routine or start cooking more healthy meals at home. If you’re just looking to engage your mind in a new way, why not try a new craft or start doing crossword puzzles. Whatever appeals to you or whatever you have been wanting to try, this is the perfect time to start doing it.

I hope you found a new self-care activity that excites you. Try to give yourself a little time each day, even if it’s just a few minutes, to give yourself a little extra love & care. Your body, mind & soul will thank you.

What’s your favorite way to engage in self-care? Leave me a comment below!

Do you need a little more inspiration? Download my free printable self-care calendar for April! It has a different activity idea for every day, making it the perfect way to remind you to spend some time for yourself daily, as well as try out different self-care activities if you’re not sure what you like best. It helps when we support each other, even with self-care, so stay tuned to my social media next month for my own journey with self-care, using this calendar & article for inspiration.

Free Printable April Self-Care Calendar Download

P.S. Self-care shouldn’t feel like work. Why not get it delivered to your doorstep every month? The Sunshine Box is a personalized self-care subscription box that is filled with items picked out just for you! It’s the perfect way to show yourself a little extra love each month. Learn more & subscribe here.

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My yoga journey: The powerful lessons I learned on my mat

March 8, 2021 3 Comments

Me in Lotus Pose – Photo by Joseph Mauler

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“Yoga is not about touching your toes. It is what you learn on the way down.”
–Jigar Gor

Yoga, for me, has always been a place of learning. On the mat, I learn more about myself than I discover in most other places in my life. I learn of my strength, my will, and my perseverance. I learn about my abilities, my draw to flexibility (both in my life & on the mat), & my limitations. Most importantly, I learn more about who I am, & I learn to love that person more.

Yoga was not always a part of my life. I was not a flexible child. I could not touch my toes if I wanted to. And for a long time, as ironic as it may seem given my current profession as a holistic health practitioner and personal trainer, exercise was not something I normally engaged in nor enjoyed.

However, when I was 13 years old, I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. This diagnosis came after months of widespread pain in my body to the point that it was difficult to get out of bed in the mornings. I was told then that yoga could help me, both in managing my physical pain & in managing my stress, which would, in turn, decrease the amount of pain I experienced.

At first, I was skeptical. Not only was I uninterested in yoga, but I had no confidence that I could do it. As many of my first-time students think, I thought I had to be flexible to do yoga. It never occurred to me that I had it the wrong way – I didn’t need to be flexible to do yoga; yoga would help me to become flexible.

Me doing yoga on the beach in South Carolina – Photo by Kristina Stout

And it helped me with that in more ways than one. When I finally rolled out the mat & slipped back into Downward Dog, I found that yoga was not just for the body; it is for the mind as well.

The yogic lifestyle began to drip into other parts of my life. As someone who was always easily stressed & angered, someone who lived by a rigid & unyielding schedule fueled by anxiety, yoga taught me patience & flexibility. When challenges came my way, I used the strength yoga had taught me as I held Plank Pose for minutes on end. When negative situations threatened my joy, I learned to flip them around & look at them differently, just as I viewed the world from Plow Pose with my feet sitting behind my head & my shoulders supporting my body instead. I learned to meditate on worries when needed, & to let meditation sweep the worries away when they no longer needed to concern my mind. And at the end of my practice, as I laid back during Savasana, I learned that it isn’t necessarily the work, but actually the rest & relaxation that can be the most important part of my life.

Yoga carried me through some of the most difficult moments in my life. It became a regular part of my daily routine. And I always felt better, mentally, physically & spiritually, when I stepped off my mat versus when I had stepped on.

As I got older, I discovered I wanted to share this joy with others, & so I was professionally trained in the art & began teaching my own classes. There is nothing more fulfilling to me than watching a student come into my class, their body held tight with stress, their mind clearly clouded with overwhelming thoughts, & then to watch them leave with a serene expression, their body loose & mind at ease. Through teaching yoga, I learned another important lesson – my life is meant for so much more than my own experiences. I was given a life to give to others.

Me teaching yoga at Stevenson University – Photo by Dannielle Decastro

Yoga is still teaching me every day. I have a stubborn mind, & I often have to be taught the same lessons again, but Yoga is patient with me, & it continues to teach me to have patience with myself. Yoga has helped me to love the body I have been given, to explore the depths of my mind & spirituality, to believe in my own abilities, & to have grace for myself when I fall. Even though I am a yoga teacher, I still often feel like I am the student in my practice, & this, too, has taught me an important lesson: humility, & in turn, compassion & empathy for others.

Yoga is a journey, filled with ups & downs, back-bending difficulties & relaxing tests of patience & flexibility. But, if you are willing to embark upon it, I promise you will discover so much more than you ever knew about the most important subject you have to learn about in this life: Your self.

Namaste.

P.S. I am currently competing to be the Yoga Warrior of 2021! Voting opens March 9. I would be so very appreciative if you would consider voting for me. You can place your vote here.

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The Sunshine Box: A Revolutionized Self-Care Box Subscription

January 26, 2021 No Comments

The Sunshine Box is not your average self-care box subscription.

We all need more self-care in our lives, but we are terrible at giving it to ourselves. Subscription boxes are a great way to simplify the process – the materials for a perfect self-care date with yourself are sent right to your door! But here’s the problem – self-care is a very personal experience, yet with most subscription boxes, you will be sent a carbon copy of what everyone else (or at least a group of people) are receiving that month.

It’s not the same with the Sunshine Box. By filling out the form below, I get to know you, what you like, & how you actually need to engage in self-care each month. Based on that information, I create a personalized box JUST FOR YOU! It’s a special gift for you every month, & it’s the perfect way to make sure you are making time for self-care in your life.

Learn more about the Sunshine Box & purchase your customized self-care box on the Evolve Wellness website.

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3 simple ways to love yourself better every day

September 4, 2020 No Comments

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I know self-care is one of the most important things I can do to make sure I am functioning at my best, but somehow, I just never seem to have time to fit it in.

Every day, my schedule fills up with work, errands, and other chores. By the time I get home, I am ready to just crawl into bed. And some days, I don’t even give myself the luxury of a good night’s rest – often, I am up late, working on a blog post, finishing an assignment for work, or taking a look at my weekly budget.

As important as self-care is, it always seems to be something I struggle with. The idea of taking a relaxing bubble bath or just sitting for an hour to read a book seems to be too difficult to fit into my day.

I know I am not alone in this. So many of us are rushing from one task to the next – it’s hard to take a step back and notice how we feel. It’s even harder to actually listen to and give our bodies what they need in that moment.

So, to give us all some much-needed help, I have listed below three simple things you can do every day to love yourself better. It takes some practice, but incorporating these three actions into your day every day can help you to be better in tune with what your body needs, and to actually meet those needs during your day. They aren’t time-consuming tasks, but they make a big difference in your quality of life. And when you are feeling good, you are better able to help the other people in your life feel good, too.

1. Do a mental check-in when you wake up

Resist checking your phone first thing in the morning and take the first 30 seconds of your day to do a check-in with your body. How are you feeling, physically, mentally and spiritually?

Ask yourself: How does your body feel? Are you well rested? What emotions are you feeling? Do you feel grounded, or do you feel disconnected from the world around you?

Based on these and other questions you may ask yourself, take note of how you are feeling, and then move on to the next task.

2. Schedule in 30 minutes to take care of yourself, mentally, physically or spiritually

Based on the results of your mental check-in, schedule in some time to take care of any needs you may have. If you are feeling tired, consider scheduling in a 30-minute nap. If your body feels stiff, maybe schedule in a 30-minute yoga session. If you are feeling sad, take some time to do something you enjoy, such as reading, dancing, or singing at the top of your lungs. If you feel like you need to ground yourself, spend some time reading scripture or repeating self-affirmations to yourself. Do whatever works for you.

Thirty minutes is not a lot of time, but it really makes a difference. Taking just this small amount of time for yourself makes sure that your most present need for the day is met.

Schedule in this time on your calendar. If it helps, make it the same time block every day, but change the activity daily based on what you need. You can do your self-care activity first thing in the morning, during your lunch hour at work, or right before you go to sleep at night. Once the task is on your to-do list, it is more likely to get done.

3. Write down 3 things you are grateful for before you go to sleep

End your day with a moment of gratitude. Write down three things you are grateful for that happened that day. This is a great practice to help you remember all of the blessings in your life, rather than focusing on the negatives. Writing down what you are grateful for will not only help you to have a more positive mindset (and positive energy helps attract a more positive life). It also helps to make sure you go to bed thinking about positive things instead of letting your mind wander to everything that is currently stressful in your life. A good night’s rest is a key part of self-care, and it’s easier to achieve that if your head is thinking happy thoughts when it hits the pillow.

Self-care is a very personal journey, and it looks different for everyone. The three practices listed above are simply meant to guide you in your own journey. Always remember to be gentle with yourself – if there are days these tasks don’t happen, simply cross them off your to-do list and promise to take better care of yourself tomorrow. Always give yourself the same love and grace you would extend to others.

What are your favorite ways to show yourself love? Leave a comment below to help spread the inspiration and positivity.

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I called a meeting with my body…

August 25, 2020 No Comments

I called a meeting with my body.

“Everybody out,” I yelled.

My nails slipped off my fingertips as blood dripped to the ground. My hair cascaded down my back to the floor. My eyelashes drooped and then fell. My lips parted, and my teeth toppled out. And then followed all the parts of me hiding inside: My pounding heart and tired lungs, my inept stomach and intestines, my small liver and kidney, and a number of other forgotten, unidentified parts of me plummeted to the ground.

“We need to discuss something important,” I told them. “I am not pleased at how my body is running. We are not working together as a team. We are not doing the best we can. Every day we are failing to meet the standards that have been set.”

“Whose standards,” a tooth piped up.

“It doesn’t matter whose standards,” I spat back.

“Why isn’t the brain here,” the stomach asked. I paused for a moment, surprised. Until now, I had not realized that the brain had neglected to join us.

“Well, I guess because the brain is the one who convinced me to call the meeting,” I said. “The brain is the one who told me that something is wrong.”

“But the brain is part of the problem,” said the heart. “Every day we all work so hard. We labor day and night to make this body function. It’s difficult, but we strive to do our very best. But even after all of that, the brain looks down its nose at us and says that it isn’t good enough – that we are worthless, incompetent and insignificant. The brain tells us that we will never measure up to the other bodies, even though we work just as much, if not more, most days.”

I looked down at my body in shock. There they were lined up, my capable teeth, my delicate but beautiful hair, my strong heart and my powerful lungs; there they all were, hard-working members of my body that had faced so many challenges without ever balking or giving up.

But I could see they were tired. The brain had been working them nonstop. It never let them rest. It always pushed them a little further; it always made them face challenges that were far beyond what most bodies were capable of. And even when the body succeeded, the brain told them that they had not done enough, been enough, were enough. It made the body feel worthless and incapable. It made the body feel as though it could never measure up, even though it was still working, still facing innumerable challenges and beating the odds every day.

The body was not the problem. The problem was me.

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A calendar for Self-Care September

August 23, 2020 3 Comments

Self-care is always essential, but now it seems even more important than ever. Stresses from back-to-school season, the election, and the looming holidays, all amid a global pandemic, are enough to make anyone feel tense.

Taking care of yourself is an important first step in making sure you can handle the stresses of daily life and still be able to give to others. Self-care is not selfish. It’s a way to make sure your needs are taken care of, so you are able to give more during your daily life.

Self-care looks different for everyone. For some of us, it’s taking hot bubble baths, reading books, or sipping a mug of hot tea. For others, it’s making time to visit with friends and family. And for some people, it’s making time to meal prep, write budgets, and create nightly routines that promote a good night’s rest. What’s important is not what the activity is, but rather that it helps you feel rejuvenated, relaxed, and ready to tackle your next life challenge.

If you aren’t sure what works best for you, check out the free printable below! You can use it simply as inspiration, or follow it for a new, self-care activity each day.

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Happy Self-Care September everyone!

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