6 easy ways to practice mindfulness this holiday season

The holidays are a busy time of year. Between shopping for gifts, holiday parties, preparing for the end of the year, and keeping up with our regular commitments, it can be difficult to find little pockets of serenity amidst the chaos. But the holidays are also a beautiful time of warmth and reflection. It is a time to nurture our wellness, to spend time with loved ones, and to recall traditions that give us a sense of home.

This holiday season, find balance and tranquility amidst the busyness with these six tips to help you practice mindfulness and focus on the beauty of the present moment.

Me practicing yoga outdoors

1. Practice Mindful Breathing

Take a few moments each day to focus on your breath. You can have this at a regularly scheduled time or just when you feel your stress levels rising. Take a deep inhale through your nose, hold for a few seconds, and then exhale through your nose or mouth. Repeat a few rounds of this, allowing your eyes to gently close if you are in a safe space to do so, and/or focus on your surroundings: What can you see, hear, smell, taste and touch? Bringing our awareness to our five senses helps to ground us in the present moment. Paired with mindful breathing, it can help calm our minds and help us come back to what is happening now, instead of focusing on what has happened or will occur.

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2. Set Boundaries

Saying “no” can be challenging, especially to activities we feel obligated to attend or to people we know are expecting us to show up, but it is a right you reserve. You are the only person who can protect your peace. And saying “no” to some events and activities may mean you are able to be more invested in the activities that mean more to you and be more present with the people who matter most. Protect your time, and make sure you are leaving enough space to take care of yourself. Just because there is a block of free time on the calendar does not mean it should be filled with another event or activity.

Me serving up some homemade hot chocolate

3. Mindful Eating

There are plenty of delicious holiday treats around this time of year. First, know that you can eat whatever you please. Food is fuel — there are more nutrient dense foods and less nutrient dense foods, but all of it is food. As long as we are making an effort for the majority of our diets to be more nutrient dense, treats can be a regular and healthy part of our nutritional intake. And at this time of year, food can take on an extra special meaning for us. The holidays just don’t seem the same if I do not get to enjoy a gingerbread cookie or a glass of eggnog.

Enjoy your food and the memories that come with it, but when you do so, enjoy it mindfully. Engage your five senses again — what can you see, taste, feel, smell, and hear? Pay attention to your surroundings as you enjoy these treats. Appreciate the warm glow from your Christmas tree or the sounds of laughter from the party. Eating mindfully will not only help you truly enjoy these treats, but it will help curb any overindulgence that can lead to painful inflammation and stomach discomfort later.

5. Create Rituals for Relaxation

Create space in your calendar for rest, and spend this time taking care of you. Try meditation, yoga and gentle stretching, or sipping some herbal tea with a good book. Engage in one of your favorite hobbies, or try a new holiday-themed craft. Establishing these rituals before bedtime can also help create a routine that signals to your body that it is time to rest. This will help you fall asleep faster and aid your mind and body in better recovery, so you can enjoy all the holiday festivities even more.

Me hiking in Frederick, MD

6. Connect with Nature

We are a part of nature, and nature is a part of us. We are meant to spend time outdoors in the fresh air, but as the weather cools, many of us find ourselves cooped up inside more than usual. Bundle up and get back out there! Enjoy a walk, engage in grounding activities, or simply sit outside with a hot drink.

Many of us also struggle with Vitamin D deficiencies in the winter because of the lack of sunlight, which can lead to feelings of sadness and depression. If you can, spend time outdoors during hours when there is sunshine, or invest in a sun lamp to help bring the sunshine with you indoors.

The holiday season is a beautiful time of connection and celebration. With these six tips, I hope you are able to find moments of rest within the busyness and more spaces for serenity and joy. I wish you a very healthy and happy holiday season and a serene beginning to your new year.

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7 ways to practice gratitude this November

“Wear gratitude like a cloak & it will feed every corner of your life.”

-Rumi

Gratitude turns what we have into enough. When we focus on the positive & the blessings in our lives, we discover more wonderful things around every corner. It’s a mindset thing more than anything else. Our lives in & of themselves do not change, but our perspective does, & that makes all the difference. When we live with an attitude of gratitude & focus on the good things in our lives, the negative things that used to command our attention seem to melt away, or at least lessen in importance.

November is Gratitude Month, so I thought it the perfect time to help us all improve our gratitude practice. Read below for seven easy ways to bring more gratitude into your live, & make sure to read all the way to the bottom to learn how you can win your own personalized Sunshine Box!

1. Keep a gratitude journal

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One common way to practice gratitude is to keep a journal. Whether you use it first thing in the morning or as the last thing you do before bed, it gives you concentrated time to focus on the good in your life. Start by just sitting in a quiet space for a minute & writing down three things you are grateful for. Try to make it something different every day, & the more specific, the better. For instance, instead of just saying “friends,” why not write a sentence about a special friend you spoke with today or who has been on your mind. Instead of writing “food,” write about the meal you had today, how it tasted, & how it made you feel. The more you focus on all of the little things in life that bring you joy, the more they will become the big things.

2. Spend time with those you love

Me visiting with my extended family

The people we love bring us joy & remind us what is most important in life. To bring more gratitude into your daily life, make time to visit with those you love. Whether it’s a weekend visit or just a quick phone call, talking with those we love & feeling their presence can help us feel more grateful.

3. Make time to do activities that bring you joy

Me reading one of my favorite books, Change of Heart by Jodi Picoult

It’s not just people that bring us joy. Our passions, hobbies & self-care activities not only bring us happiness, but they can also recenter & energize us. After spending time with ourselves, we can return to work feeling happier & more productive, rather than drained & burnt out. Take some time to do the things that you enjoy, & you may find yourself finding more joy in the daily activities that used to bring you stress.

4. Acknowledge the negative

Me after suffering a recent running injury

Not all things in life have a positive spin. Some things that happen are hard. One thing we must do to live a life of gratitude is to acknowledge the negatives. To make everything seem positive invalidates our experiences. When something bad happens, acknowledge it, & give yourself time to emotionally deal with it. Journal, talk to someone, or just take some time to heal. It will make the good times sweeter when you acknowledge that not every moment in life feels good.

5. Meditate

Me meditating

Mindfulness can help us feel more grateful, too. Our perspectives are what matter most when trying to live a life of gratitude. Taking time to meditate can help. To start, take a few quiet moments to be with yourself. Focus on your breath & be grateful to your beating heart & working lungs. Or, if you find this challenging, try a meditation where you focus on your surroundings. Focus on your senses – what can you hear, taste, smell, touch & see. Feel gratitude for the little things that you normally overlook. If you are a busybody & find it difficult to sit still, try a walking meditation, taking notice to your surroundings & expressing gratitude for them.

6. Train yourself not to complain

On my 4K for Cancer run across the country, my teammates & I began using the phrase, “I get to.” It was a tiring journey, & we had begun complaining about the miles we had to run. My director, Mads, came up with the phrase, “I get to,” to turn our grumblings into appreciation & gratitude for our ability to do such an amazing run.

As noted above, perspective matters in living a life of gratitude. When we complain, it shifts our perspective from one of abundance to scarcity. We feel dissatisfied with our lives when we complain. Instead of complaining, try to talk about your blessings with others. Some people feel this comes across as bragging, but it can be done tactfully, & the people who love you should want to hear about the things that bring you joy! Give others the opportunity to share, too. Ask questions about what joys they have experienced recently. The more you share & ask for them to share, the more it will become a regular practice in your social circles. Not only will this impact you positively, but it will positively impact the lives of those around you.

7. Serve others

Me delivering Sunshine Boxes to the Ulman House

An important way to remember how blessed we are is to serve others who are less fortunate. Our schedules are busy, but even taking just a little time to serve others can help us to be grateful for our own lives. Remember, serving doesn’t have to be time-consuming or take a lot of energy. Simply paying for someone else’s meal, holding the door for someone, helping someone carry their groceries, or asking someone who is hurting how you can help can be great ways to serve.

The more you make these activities a practice in your daily life, the more you will find yourself focusing on the good around you. Life is what we make of it, & I personally want to live a beautiful life.

As promised, I have a little challenge for you all that could win you a FREE personalized Sunshine Box, filled with self-care items to help you incorporate more self-love in your life. Below is a month-long gratitude challenge to help you recenter yourself & focus on the positive. Post about the challenge once to your social media, whether it’s talking about your daily activity or the challenge in general, & you will receive a FREE sticker of the month subscription. For every additional post, your name will be entered into a drawing to win a Sunshine Box! The winner will be announced at the end of the month. To make sure I see your posts, remember to tag me @TylerVLayne with the hashtag #TVLGratitudeChallenge.

Good luck & Happy Gratitude Month!

Gratitude Challenge:

November 1 – Get your journal & get ready!

November 2 – Make a list of all the things you take for granted.

November 3 – Share three things that make you special.

November 4 – Think about a friend who has supported you. Write a note or send a text to express your gratitude for them.

November 5 – What’s one simple thing that made today a good day? Share a photo with us.

November 6 – Where did you see God (or whatever higher power you worship) in your life today? Share that with us.

November 7 – Share with us three people you are grateful for & why.

November 8 – Before you start eating lunch today, be thankful for the food on the table.

November 9 – What was your favorite smell, touch, sight, or sound from today? Share it with us.

November 10 – Make a list of all the people that help with your work or life.

November 11 – What are three simple things you are grateful for today? Share them with us.

November 12 – Express your gratitude to service workers you see today.

November 13 – What inspirational quote or words of wisdom are you most grateful for? Share them with us.

November 14 – Share a highlight from your day with us.

November 15 – What is a challenging experience that made you stronger? Write about it.

November 16 – Make a list of the top 20 things you are grateful for in your life right now.

November 17 – What is something you are grateful for today that you didn’t have a year ago? Share that with us.

November 18 – Make a list of the things you own that money can’t buy.

November 19 – What are three ways you can bring gratitude into a current challenge? Write about it.

November 20 – When you go grocery shopping, take a moment to be grateful you have the resources to buy your food. If you can, pay for someone else’s groceries as well.

November 21 – What about this planet are you grateful for? Pick a beautiful spot in nature to spend some time in today.

November 22 – What made you smile today? Share it with us.

November 23 – Write about a fear you have overcome.

November 24 – When you get coffee or breakfast, pay for the next person in line.

November 25 – Happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy the holiday.

November 26 – Think of something you have learned that was very helpful. If you want, share it with us so we can learn it, too!

November 27 – Share with us your three favorite activities & why you love them.

November 28 – Volunteer for a nonprofit you care about.

November 29 – Write about what you are most grateful for about your mom, or the person you consider to be a mom to you.

November 30 – Reflect on the past month. How has practicing gratitude in your daily changed your perspective?

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5 positive affirmations for peace of mind this summer

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After a season of growth, summer is the perfect season to relax & find joy in the present moment.

Positive affirmations are a great way to reframe your perspective on life & keep your mind focused on what’s most important. Your mindset has the power to give you more confidence & positivity in your daily life, or to bring you down. By repeating affirmations in your mind, you can ease anxieties & help yourself to focus on what’s most important.

These five affirmations are geared towards summer fun & relaxation. Whether you are trying to clear your mind while lounging by the pool, or if you’re attempting to ease anxieties before a big trip, these affirmations will help you enjoy your summer to its fullest. Feel free to share on social media, or save these graphics to make them your new phone background! It’s an easy way to remind yourself to repeat these words when you need them most.

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5 positive affirmations for spring growth

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Spring is a time of renewal. It is the season of new life, when the cold & dreariness of winter finally subsides & hopeful little flower buds poke their heads out into the sunlight. What time could be more perfect to leave our old selves behind & start anew?

Positive affirmations are a great way to change our mindset, & therefore, change our entire lives! Our thoughts have such a profound effect on how we perceive the world around us. Just simply changing the words we speak to ourselves can help us to feel happier & more fulfilled.

Below, I have five positive affirmations that can help you renew your mind & soul this spring. All of them have been designed to be the perfect size for your phone’s wallpaper, so you can put them right where you will see them most. Every time you unlock your phone, you will be reminded of these powerful words. We know that repeating affirmations to ourselves throughout the day can be a powerful way to change our thinking patterns, so having this constant reminder right on our phones is a great way to begin this process!

I hope you enjoy these affirmations, & that they bring you a refreshing sense of peace & joy after a long winter. Leave me a comment below letting me know which one is your favorite, or to share the affirmation you most love to repeat to yourself!

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10 positive affirmations for when you’re feeling overwhelmed

The words we speak to ourselves matter.

In difficult times, we can either tear ourselves down or build ourselves us up by the words we tell ourselves. Sometimes, our minds can be our worst enemies – we can convince ourselves that we aren’t capable or are unworthy before we even have a chance to prove to ourselves just how incredible we are.

The good news is we do not need encouragement from others to get through times like these. Just by changing the messages we speak to ourselves, we can empower ourselves to handle the challenges that come our way.

If you are currently in a season of stress in your life, give yourself some needed words of encouragement with these positive affirmations. Repeat them to yourself throughout the day, use them as your phone background, or print them out and hang them on your wall. And feel free to add them to your story or your favorite form of social media – spread the positivity!

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3 simple ways to love yourself better every day

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I know self-care is one of the most important things I can do to make sure I am functioning at my best, but somehow, I just never seem to have time to fit it in.

Every day, my schedule fills up with work, errands, and other chores. By the time I get home, I am ready to just crawl into bed. And some days, I don’t even give myself the luxury of a good night’s rest – often, I am up late, working on a blog post, finishing an assignment for work, or taking a look at my weekly budget.

As important as self-care is, it always seems to be something I struggle with. The idea of taking a relaxing bubble bath or just sitting for an hour to read a book seems to be too difficult to fit into my day. 

I know I am not alone in this. So many of us are rushing from one task to the next – it’s hard to take a step back and notice how we feel. It’s even harder to actually listen to and give our bodies what they need in that moment.

So, to give us all some much-needed help, I have listed below three simple things you can do every day to love yourself better. It takes some practice, but incorporating these three actions into your day every day can help you to be better in tune with what your body needs, and to actually meet those needs during your day. They aren’t time-consuming tasks, but they make a big difference in your quality of life. And when you are feeling good, you are better able to help the other people in your life feel good, too.

1. Do a mental check-in when you wake up

Resist checking your phone first thing in the morning and take the first 30 seconds of your day to do a check-in with your body. How are you feeling, physically, mentally and spiritually? 

Ask yourself: How does your body feel? Are you well rested? What emotions are you feeling? Do you feel grounded, or do you feel disconnected from the world around you? 

Based on these and other questions you may ask yourself, take note of how you are feeling, and then move on to the next task.

2. Schedule in 30 minutes to take care of yourself, mentally, physically or spiritually

Based on the results of your mental check-in, schedule in some time to take care of any needs you may have. If you are feeling tired, consider scheduling in a 30-minute nap. If your body feels stiff, maybe schedule in a 30-minute yoga session. If you are feeling sad, take some time to do something you enjoy, such as reading, dancing, or singing at the top of your lungs. If you feel like you need to ground yourself, spend some time reading scripture or repeating self-affirmations to yourself. Do whatever works for you. 

Thirty minutes is not a lot of time, but it really makes a difference. Taking just this small amount of time for yourself makes sure that your most present need for the day is met. 

Schedule in this time on your calendar. If it helps, make it the same time block every day, but change the activity daily based on what you need. You can do your self-care activity first thing in the morning, during your lunch hour at work, or right before you go to sleep at night. Once the task is on your to-do list, it is more likely to get done.

3. Write down 3 things you are grateful for before you go to sleep

End your day with a moment of gratitude. Write down three things you are grateful for that happened that day. This is a great practice to help you remember all of the blessings in your life, rather than focusing on the negatives. Writing down what you are grateful for will not only help you to have a more positive mindset (and positive energy helps attract a more positive life). It also helps to make sure you go to bed thinking about positive things instead of letting your mind wander to everything that is currently stressful in your life. A good night’s rest is a key part of self-care, and it’s easier to achieve that if your head is thinking happy thoughts when it hits the pillow.

Self-care is a very personal journey, and it looks different for everyone. The three practices listed above are simply meant to guide you in your own journey. Always remember to be gentle with yourself – if there are days these tasks don’t happen, simply cross them off your to-do list and promise to take better care of yourself tomorrow. Always give yourself the same love and grace you would extend to others.

What are your favorite ways to show yourself love? Leave a comment below to help spread the inspiration and positivity. 

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5 common myths in the fitness and nutrition industry

Health is wealth.

Unfortunately, that sentiment has created an industry focused far more on profit than individuals’ actual health, and that has caused many false claims about nutrition and physical fitness to be spread without control. Extreme views in the fitness and nutrition world have been celebrated because these lifestyles receive the most attention on social media, therefore they earn the most profit. However, this has caused balanced lifestyle choices to become less attractive as extreme workouts and eliminative diets grow most popular.

Balance, however, is very important in all areas of life, including physical fitness and nutrition. Extreme diets and workouts cannot only cause more damage than they do good; they can actually cause more stress and can have less success because people have trouble sticking to their unrealistic goals.

So, here are five common myths that have been spread in the fitness and nutrition industry, and healthier ways to actually approach creating a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

Myth #1: Carbs are not good for you

Despite the focus of the most recent fad diets, carbs are not actually bad for you.

There are a couple of reasons why carbohydrates are thought to be the main cause of weight gain. First, many carbs are calorically dense, so eating a lot of carbs can mean eating an excess of calories. Second, some carbs are high in refined sugar, which is known to cause inflammation and weight gain. Third, some people are very successful on a low-carb diet. People with a naturally large body type tend to function best when they eat more fats and less carbs. The thing is, not everyone who is overweight has a naturally large body shape – most people who are overweight just have an excess of fat. People who have a naturally large body shape (the endomorphic body type) are actually healthy at a larger size – think of football players or higher weight class wrestlers. The average body shape (a mesomorphic body type) actually functions best when they eat a balance of carbs and fats. 

An excess of any macronutrient, whether it be carbs, fats or protein, can cause weight gain, not just carbohydrates. And there are plenty of healthy carbs that can be part of a balanced diet, such as whole-grain bread, fruit, and starchy vegetables like potatoes. 

If you are trying to lose weight, minimizing your carb intake can be helpful, but drastic decreases in intake or complete elimination of carbs are not necessary for success. In fact, trying to stick to such a strict diet can harbor success, and eliminating necessary nutrients can make it harder to lose weight. So, instead of eliminating or drastically reducing your carb intake, aim for a balance between your carb, fat and protein intake and make sure you are eating healthier carb sources. Try to eat more carbs from whole food sources, such as fruit and starchy vegetables, and fewer carbs from packages. You may find that it’s not that carbs make you gain weight, but that you are eating too many of them or that you are eating carbs from unhealthier sources. 

Myth #2: Doing a lot of high-intensity cardio exercise is the best way to lose weight

Cardio exercise is defined as any exercises that raises your heart and respiratory rate. According to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), a healthy amount of exercise includes doing 30 minutes of moderate-intensity cardio, such as strength training, hiking or playing sports, for five days per week; or doing 25 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity, such as running, bicycling or HIIT training, three days per week.

Many people seem to think that they have to elevate their heart rate to high levels during every workout in order to lose weight. However, having a balance of moderate cardio exercise and high-intensity cardio exercise during your week is the best way to achieve healthy weight loss. Strength training (a moderate cardio exercise) increases muscle mass, which in turn increases metabolic rate, which means you burn more calories throughout your day. In contrast to this, high-intensity calorie exercises burn lots of calories while doing the workout, but they don’t keep up that caloric burn throughout your day. 

For the best results, try to include both high-intensity and moderate-intensity cardio exercise in your fitness program. If you are trying to lose weight, aim to include a total of at least five hours of physical activity in your week. This can include both cardio workouts and lower-intensity exercises, such as walking and yoga

Myth #3: Eating 1,200 calories per day is a healthy way to lose weight

There are a lot of diets that promote restricting calories rather than just restricting one macronutrient to achieve weight loss goals.

Calories are a form of energy. How many calories a food has directly translates to how much energy it gives the body. The amount of calories a food has is determined by how much the body will increase in temperature when eating that food. According to US Department of Agriculture, “one Calorie is the amount of heat required to raise the temperature of one kilogram of water one degree Celsius.”

This is all very scientific, so unless you are pursuing a career in nutrition or biomedical science, it’s unlikely you need to understand how this works. What you do need to know is the higher in calories the food is, the more energy it is supposed to give the body. The reason this sometimes doesn’t work, though, is because heavily processed foods tend to be high in calories but low in nutritional value. This means that they will give your body lots of energy, but only for a short burst of time, which will cause you to become hungry again far sooner than you would have from eating a more nutritionally dense food. This can cause people to overeat. When people eat an excess of calories, meaning they eat more calories than they burn throughout their day, their energy balance is thrown off, therefore they gain weight.

This is the thinking behind low-calorie diets. By decreasing the amount of calories you eat in a day, you will create a negative energy balance, which means you will burn more calories than you eat. When this happens, you lose weight.

However, this doesn’t always work. When calorie intake gets too low, the body can go into “starvation mode.” When this happens, the metabolism, which helps you burn calories throughout your day, slows down in an effort to keep your body safe. When your metabolism slows, so does your weight loss. Eating a strict, low-calorie diet for a longer amount of time can also put the body at risk for a number of health conditions, such as hair loss, infertility, constipation, and hypoglycemia

The reason the number of 1200 calories has grown in popularity is because this has been said to the be the minimum amount of calories your body needs to survive. This is true, but that does not mean it’s a good calorie amount to aim for. This is the amount of calories the body burns without doing anything else, which means if you do anything beyond lying in bed all day, you are going to burn more calories than this. In order to achieve a healthy, sustainable weight loss, it’s important that you eat fewer calories than you are burning, but not excessively fewer calories. 

Rather than trying to figure out exactly how many calories your body needs to function, I recommend focusing on your macronutrient intake and exercise volume. When you sit down to eat, make sure your plate includes healthy fats, protein, vegetables, and nutritionally-dense carbs. This way, you will make sure that you are not only eating enough calories, but you are getting your calories from vitamin- and mineral-rich sources that will provide your body with the nutrients it needs to perform at its best. And rather than trying to restrict the amount you are eating, focus more on increasing the amount of activity in your day. This way, you will still be consuming all of the nutrients your body needs, but you will still be achieving a negative energy balance because you are burning more calories through your day. By focusing on your macronutrient intake and increasing your exercise volume, you will be able to achieve and sustainable, healthy weight loss and more attainable nutrition and fitness goals.

Myth #4: Cheat meals and days are a necessary part of a fitness program

Cheat meals are an interesting topic because for some people they are a great way to help them achieve their goals, and for others, they discourage goal attainment.

The thought behind cheat days and meals is that, if you spend one meal or day eating an excess of calories, it will jump-start your metabolism. This can work, but most people who have success with cheat days and meals are benefitting from the mental rather than the physical aspect. Regularly scheduling meals or days that they can eat freely helps people to stick to their daily nutrition goals because they know they will be able to eat more of what they want soon. 

However, for some people, cheat meals and days work the opposite way. Because people  have been restricting themselves so severely, when they are finally allowed the chance to eat something they want, they eat in excess. When this happens regularly, it can actually derail progress that happened during the rest of the week. 

The one thing I don’t like about cheat meals and days is that they imply that eating less nutrient-dense foods is “cheating.” No one likes being a “cheater.” It’s a strict diet mindset that, I think, does more harm mentally than it does any good, mentally or physically.

The best advice I can give is to try to achieve a balance in your nutritional lifestyle regularly. When you see a food you want to eat that is less nutrient dense, enjoy the food, but then try to eat healthier throughout the day to achieve a balance in your eating. Find joy in giving your body foods that make it feel good, and then, on special occasions or when you are craving them, enjoy foods that delight your senses. When you focus more on what your body needs rather than restricting yourself from foods, you will find that your body often craves the foods that will best support it. Rather than incorporating cheat days and meals into a strict diet, focus on building a lifestyle that includes occasional treats and indulgences. 

Myth #5: You have to push through pain in your workouts to achieve results

My fitness feed is often filled with quotes like “No pain, no gain,” written in dark letters against backgrounds of heavy weights. I see posts encouraging people to work harder by saying, “Pain is temporary, pride is forever,” and “Let’s see how far I can go.”“When my body shouts, ‘stop,’ my mind screams, ‘never,’” is another popular quote that I actually find alarming. 

Let me explain the problem behind these quotes. They do have the power to motivate someone, but I think they often push people a little too far. When I first began my fitness journey, it was these quotes that ran through my head as I pushed myself to run just one extra mile, lift just one extra rep, or wake up just a little bit earlier to workout. And these can all be great things to do if you’re listening to your body and know the signs of when to push through a workout and when to give your body rest. For me, with little fitness experience at the time, it was these quotes that pushed me to fracture my leg during a run because of the stress I had put on it. 

Unless you are an elite athlete pushing through intense competitions, pain should not be a regular feature of your workouts. You don’t need pain to grow your muscles; what is needed is discomfort. 

What is the difference between pain and discomfort? Pain leads to injuries, while discomfort leads to growth. When you are just starting out with an exercise program, it can be difficult to tell the difference, but as you continue working out, it will become clear when your body is growing and when it is telling you to stop. 

However, there are a couple of ways to determine whether you are experiencing pain or discomfort. Discomfort is eased as soon as you release the pressure you are holding on your body, either by dropping a weight or releasing a stretch. Discomfort can feel irritating, but it isn’t intense. It builds slowly during an exercise, and it goes away, or at least decreases dramatically, when you stop. Pain, on the other hand, is sharp and intense. It comes quickly and lingers even after you stop the exercise. Pain can affect your form, and it gets increasingly worse if you try to push through the workout. 

If you are feeling discomfort, it is okay to continue to push through the exercise for a short while – this can lead to muscle growth and increased exercise adaptation. However, if you feel pain, stop the exercise. Giving your body the rest and recovery it needs can make the difference between a day off from the gym, or weeks to months recovering from an injury. 

There is a lot of confusing, conflicting information in the fitness and nutrition world about how to approach a healthy lifestyle. The best advice I can give is to listen to your own body. It knows what it needs. 

If you need some help navigating the plethora of information about health and wellness, or if you need some guidance in your fitness journey, contact me. Evolve is focused on achieving a healthy, balanced lifestyle through holistic wellness, mindful eating, and activity that fits your way of life. 

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Find your balance

It’s not about being thin. It’s not about the before and after photos. It’s not about the muscle definition, the mile time, or the amount of weight lifted.

It’s about finding balance. It’s about loving yourself. It’s about evolving into the healthiest version of you.

For me, it’s been a long journey, and it’s not even close to being over. I started out overweight and riddled with pain from fibromyalgia. I was inactive, and my diet consisted of mostly processed foods. But most importantly, I despised myself. Physically, mentally and spiritually, I was at my lowest.

When I started trying to get active, the first type of exercise I tried was yoga. It was a low-impact way to stretch my muscles and show my body some love.

But then, my exercise grew more intense. And as it did, the amount I was eating continued to decrease. I found myself growing weaker and weaker, until I was only a shell of the person I had been.

There has to be a balance. You have to feed yourself, physically, mentally and spiritually, to be healthy. That means eating the things that make your body happy and that also bring you joy. It means moving in ways that show your body the love it deserves. It means filling your soul and mind with inspiring, positive messages that fill you in ways that food cannot.

It’s not easy. It’s something we all constantly have to work on. But perhaps I can help you get started.

Check out my Evolve social media for some inspiration, recipes and exercises to get you started. If you have any questions, send me a direct message on any of my social media accounts or comment below. I would love to talk with you more.

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