7 ways to practice gratitude this November

“Wear gratitude like a cloak & it will feed every corner of your life.”

-Rumi

Gratitude turns what we have into enough. When we focus on the positive & the blessings in our lives, we discover more wonderful things around every corner. It’s a mindset thing more than anything else. Our lives in & of themselves do not change, but our perspective does, & that makes all the difference. When we live with an attitude of gratitude & focus on the good things in our lives, the negative things that used to command our attention seem to melt away, or at least lessen in importance.

November is Gratitude Month, so I thought it the perfect time to help us all improve our gratitude practice. Read below for seven easy ways to bring more gratitude into your live, & make sure to read all the way to the bottom to learn how you can win your own personalized Sunshine Box!

1. Keep a gratitude journal

Photo by Gabrielle Henderson on Unsplash

One common way to practice gratitude is to keep a journal. Whether you use it first thing in the morning or as the last thing you do before bed, it gives you concentrated time to focus on the good in your life. Start by just sitting in a quiet space for a minute & writing down three things you are grateful for. Try to make it something different every day, & the more specific, the better. For instance, instead of just saying “friends,” why not write a sentence about a special friend you spoke with today or who has been on your mind. Instead of writing “food,” write about the meal you had today, how it tasted, & how it made you feel. The more you focus on all of the little things in life that bring you joy, the more they will become the big things.

2. Spend time with those you love

Me visiting with my extended family

The people we love bring us joy & remind us what is most important in life. To bring more gratitude into your daily life, make time to visit with those you love. Whether it’s a weekend visit or just a quick phone call, talking with those we love & feeling their presence can help us feel more grateful.

3. Make time to do activities that bring you joy

Me reading one of my favorite books, Change of Heart by Jodi Picoult

It’s not just people that bring us joy. Our passions, hobbies & self-care activities not only bring us happiness, but they can also recenter & energize us. After spending time with ourselves, we can return to work feeling happier & more productive, rather than drained & burnt out. Take some time to do the things that you enjoy, & you may find yourself finding more joy in the daily activities that used to bring you stress.

4. Acknowledge the negative

Me after suffering a recent running injury

Not all things in life have a positive spin. Some things that happen are hard. One thing we must do to live a life of gratitude is to acknowledge the negatives. To make everything seem positive invalidates our experiences. When something bad happens, acknowledge it, & give yourself time to emotionally deal with it. Journal, talk to someone, or just take some time to heal. It will make the good times sweeter when you acknowledge that not every moment in life feels good.

5. Meditate

Me meditating

Mindfulness can help us feel more grateful, too. Our perspectives are what matter most when trying to live a life of gratitude. Taking time to meditate can help. To start, take a few quiet moments to be with yourself. Focus on your breath & be grateful to your beating heart & working lungs. Or, if you find this challenging, try a meditation where you focus on your surroundings. Focus on your senses – what can you hear, taste, smell, touch & see. Feel gratitude for the little things that you normally overlook. If you are a busybody & find it difficult to sit still, try a walking meditation, taking notice to your surroundings & expressing gratitude for them.

6. Train yourself not to complain

On my 4K for Cancer run across the country, my teammates & I began using the phrase, “I get to.” It was a tiring journey, & we had begun complaining about the miles we had to run. My director, Mads, came up with the phrase, “I get to,” to turn our grumblings into appreciation & gratitude for our ability to do such an amazing run.

As noted above, perspective matters in living a life of gratitude. When we complain, it shifts our perspective from one of abundance to scarcity. We feel dissatisfied with our lives when we complain. Instead of complaining, try to talk about your blessings with others. Some people feel this comes across as bragging, but it can be done tactfully, & the people who love you should want to hear about the things that bring you joy! Give others the opportunity to share, too. Ask questions about what joys they have experienced recently. The more you share & ask for them to share, the more it will become a regular practice in your social circles. Not only will this impact you positively, but it will positively impact the lives of those around you.

7. Serve others

Me delivering Sunshine Boxes to the Ulman House

An important way to remember how blessed we are is to serve others who are less fortunate. Our schedules are busy, but even taking just a little time to serve others can help us to be grateful for our own lives. Remember, serving doesn’t have to be time-consuming or take a lot of energy. Simply paying for someone else’s meal, holding the door for someone, helping someone carry their groceries, or asking someone who is hurting how you can help can be great ways to serve.

The more you make these activities a practice in your daily life, the more you will find yourself focusing on the good around you. Life is what we make of it, & I personally want to live a beautiful life.

As promised, I have a little challenge for you all that could win you a FREE personalized Sunshine Box, filled with self-care items to help you incorporate more self-love in your life. Below is a month-long gratitude challenge to help you recenter yourself & focus on the positive. Post about the challenge once to your social media, whether it’s talking about your daily activity or the challenge in general, & you will receive a FREE sticker of the month subscription. For every additional post, your name will be entered into a drawing to win a Sunshine Box! The winner will be announced at the end of the month. To make sure I see your posts, remember to tag me @TylerVLayne with the hashtag #TVLGratitudeChallenge.

Good luck & Happy Gratitude Month!

Gratitude Challenge:

November 1 – Get your journal & get ready!

November 2 – Make a list of all the things you take for granted.

November 3 – Share three things that make you special.

November 4 – Think about a friend who has supported you. Write a note or send a text to express your gratitude for them.

November 5 – What’s one simple thing that made today a good day? Share a photo with us.

November 6 – Where did you see God (or whatever higher power you worship) in your life today? Share that with us.

November 7 – Share with us three people you are grateful for & why.

November 8 – Before you start eating lunch today, be thankful for the food on the table.

November 9 – What was your favorite smell, touch, sight, or sound from today? Share it with us.

November 10 – Make a list of all the people that help with your work or life.

November 11 – What are three simple things you are grateful for today? Share them with us.

November 12 – Express your gratitude to service workers you see today.

November 13 – What inspirational quote or words of wisdom are you most grateful for? Share them with us.

November 14 – Share a highlight from your day with us.

November 15 – What is a challenging experience that made you stronger? Write about it.

November 16 – Make a list of the top 20 things you are grateful for in your life right now.

November 17 – What is something you are grateful for today that you didn’t have a year ago? Share that with us.

November 18 – Make a list of the things you own that money can’t buy.

November 19 – What are three ways you can bring gratitude into a current challenge? Write about it.

November 20 – When you go grocery shopping, take a moment to be grateful you have the resources to buy your food. If you can, pay for someone else’s groceries as well.

November 21 – What about this planet are you grateful for? Pick a beautiful spot in nature to spend some time in today.

November 22 – What made you smile today? Share it with us.

November 23 – Write about a fear you have overcome.

November 24 – When you get coffee or breakfast, pay for the next person in line.

November 25 – Happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy the holiday.

November 26 – Think of something you have learned that was very helpful. If you want, share it with us so we can learn it, too!

November 27 – Share with us your three favorite activities & why you love them.

November 28 – Volunteer for a nonprofit you care about.

November 29 – Write about what you are most grateful for about your mom, or the person you consider to be a mom to you.

November 30 – Reflect on the past month. How has practicing gratitude in your daily changed your perspective?

Continue Reading

10 healthy food swaps for your favorite unhealthy snacks

Photo by Georgia Vagim on Unsplash

When the mid-afternoon slump comes around, or when you’re watching TV late at night, it’s natural to want something to much on. And sometimes, such as during that afternoon slump, you need food to give you the energy you need to get through the rest of your day. Unfortunately, many of the foods we reach for don’t actually give us the energy we need – they taste good & satisfy our sweet or savory craving, but they do little to fuel our bodies.

When you need some energy, or if you’re just looking for something yummy to munch on & kick your craving, it’s important to give your body what it needs, instead of just giving your taste buds what they want. People often give cravings a bad rap – they happen when you’re thirsty or bored & should be avoided at all costs to achieve your health goals. Sometimes this is true, but other times, our bodies are actually trying to signal us that they need something. When your stomach starts to growl & you feel your energy waning, that means your body needs food. Food is fuel, & not only does it help us focus, but eating every two to four hours also increases your metabolic rate, which actually helps you lose weight!

When you are craving a certain food, think also about what it is about that food that you are craving. Sometimes, you just really want a bowl of ice cream, & it is just a legitimate craving for that particular food. But other times, your body is trying to tell you what it needs. If you are craving ice cream, maybe your body needs sugar or calcium, which it can get from fruit, yogurt or milk. If you are craving potato chips, you might need sodium, which you can get from cheese or roasted, salted nuts. If you are craving red meat (which can be enjoyed in moderation), perhaps your iron levels are low & some dark leafy greens would help. It doesn’t always satisfy your craving, but clients I work with are often surprised how much this practice helps in satisfying their body & cravings without indulging in unhealthy foods.

However, if you just can’t kick the craving, there is still another option. There are plenty of healthy foods on the market & recipes you can make in your kitchen that taste just as good (or even better!) than the unhealthy snack you are craving, but eating the healthy swap won’t derail your health goals. Read below to find 10 healthy food swaps for your favorite unhealthy snack, & say goodbye to the diet culture idea of deprivation.

Craving potato chips? Try plantain chips

Plantain chips are actually one of my favorite snacks. It’s a little more dense than a potato chip, which I actually enjoy, & it still has the salty flavor that I love. Plantain chips have only two ingredients – plantains & salt. They aren’t fried, & the plantain itself is a little more nutrient dense than a potato, making plantain chips a healthy alternative to this salty snack. My favorite plantain chips are made by Aurora Natural.

Swap dark chocolate for your favorite candy bar

I know, this isn’t quite the same. But dark chocolate’s rich & bold flavor is something I personally enjoy. The darker you can go, the better, but start with 72% if you’re used to sweeter chocolate. If you go darker, I personally recommend Lindt chocolate – it’s the only brand I have found (at a decent price point) that maintains the creaminess of chocolate even as the cacao content goes up.

Dark chocolate, unlike a regular candy bar, has health benefits, too! It’s full of minerals & has lots of antioxidants to help keep your body healthy.

If you want something a little more nuanced than just plain chocolate, spread a thin layer of natural peanut butter on top for a sophisticated peanut butter cup flavor.

Instead of buying trail mix, make your own at home!

Store-bought trail mix (or, as I like to call it, chocolate with obstacles) is loaded with added sugar. And let’s be honest, it’s normally pretty peanut heavy, instead of including a range of different, healthy nuts. Make your own trail mix at home with a variety of roasted nuts & unsweetened dried fruit. If you need a little chocolate flavor, try adding carob chips instead of chocolate chips or M&Ms for a healthier alternative that still satisfies your sweet & salty craving.

Ice cream? How about n’ice cream?

N’ice cream, or banana ice cream, is just as creamy & sweet as regular ice cream, but it has none of the added sugar! And it’s so easy to make!

Chop your banana into 1-inch slices & freeze. When frozen, blend in the bowl of a food processor with your favorite ice cream flavors (I personally enjoy adding unsweetened dark chocolate cocoa powder & peanut butter for a chocolate peanut butter flavor, or adding fresh strawberries for a strawberry banana flavor). If needed, add a small bit of milk (1 tablespoon at a time) until the mixture is able to blend into a smooth, creamy confection. If needed, add a little honey or pure maple syrup (not pancake syrup) to get the sweetness level that you desire.

The only downside to n’ice cream is that it doesn’t freeze well – you have to eat it immediately. But it’s so easy to make, & there are so many flavor combinations to try, you could make a new batch every night if you wanted!

Instead of buying a sugar-laden fruit cup, meal prep some small fresh fruit cups for the week

Many fruit cups have hidden sugar & preservatives added. Instead of buying this faux healthy snack from the store, consider prepping little fruit cups for the week so you have a healthy snack that’s easy to grab & go. Chop up your favorite fruits & store them in small food storage containers in your refrigerator. It tastes even better, & it’s much healthier.

Want some crackers with your cheese? Sub your starchy favorites for Nut Thins

If you have ever ventured to look at the serving size of your favorite cracker, you may have been shocked to see it’s far fewer than the amount of crackers you probably eat in a serving. In fact, some crackers have as few as four crackers per serving! Instead of eating these starchy, high-carb choices, try Blue Diamond Nut Thins. They are gluten-free, made with ground nuts, & their serving size is 19 crackers (a much more reasonable serving size in my opinion). They are a great low-calorie, low-carb alternative to your favorite cracker, & they still make a great vehicle for your favorite toppings. And, if you are a fan of flavored, cheese-y crackers, try their Pepper Jack Nut Thins for a healthy, savory snack!

Not all protein bars are created equal – try Simply Protein for a healthier snack

I hate to say it, but many protein bars on the shelves are basically candy bars in disguise. With sugar contents that sometimes reach over 30g per serving, it’s a wonder to me how they get away with this marketing scam. If you’re looking for a quick, grab-and-go snack that’s high in protein but won’t derail your health goals, try Simply Protein. Unlike many of its counterparts, Simply Protein never has more than 3g of sugar, & many of its bars don’t have any sugar at all. Additionally, instead of the ingredients being a long list of unpronounceable words that make me think the snack was made by people in white lab coats instead of chefs, Simply Protein bars are made with high-quality natural ingredients that are easy to read & pronounce. When you take a bite of a Simply Protein bar, you know that you are nourishing your body. Their Peanut Butter Cookie Bar is my personal favorite, but check out their website for more flavors & other fun snacks!

Craving cookies with milk? Try these healthy banana oatmeal cookies

Cookies with milk is a nostalgic snack that I still crave every once in a while. Instead of grabbing a package of OREO cookies or baking a batch of Pillsbury sugar cookie dough, try making these easy banana oatmeal cookies for a healthy snack with no added sugar!

Preheat your oven to 350 degrees F. Line cookie sheets with parchment paper. In a bowl, mash 2 bananas with a fork. Add 1 1/2 cups oats & stir until combined. Now comes the fun part – add your favorite flavors. Cocoa powder, cinnamon, semisweet chocolate chips, unsweetened dried fruit, or natural peanut butter all make great additions to this recipe. Add your mix-ins & then scoop out tablespoon-sized balls onto your cookie sheet. Press the balls flat (they will not spread in the oven) to give them a cookie shape. Bake for 12-15 minutes, or until lightly golden brown. Enjoy!

If you need something a little sweeter, try adding a touch of raw honey or pure maple syrup to the batter before baking.

Do you enjoy cereal for breakfast? Swap the sugary selections for healthier options

Cereal is one of my secret vices. It’s one of my favorite breakfasts (even though I know I’ll end up feeling hungry again within the hour), & I absolutely love it as a late night snack. If you just can’t kick your craving for cereal, there are plenty of healthier choices on your store shelves. Choose organic brands, selections without added colors & dyes, & those that have less than 10g added sugar (or less than 5g if you’re really trying to stay healthy) per serving. Cascadian Farm’s Purely O’s, Barbara’s Original Puffins, & Nature’s Path Flax Plus Raisin Bran all make great choices that taste just as good as their sugary counterparts. Cereal isn’t all bad either! When you choose healthier selections, they can be a great source of fiber, & many cereals are fortified with essential vitamins & minerals that your body needs.

What’s your favorite healthy snack swap? Leave me a comment below!

Continue Reading